Not invited to BIL 40th

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That's not how evite works. It's not like an envelope that only has DH's name. I often invite an entire family but use only one email address, or it's hard to keep track of who has or hasn't rsvp'ed. DH should RSVP for both of you.

This. You're getting mad over nothing.

+1 op, you are making a huge deal about absolutely nothing. He rsvps for two. Done

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it was intentional slight to make sure you do not attend. Take it as a direct move to be disrespectful to you. You should fire off an email letting everyone know how upset you are. Be sure to copy the entire family on the email. Plan to crash the party, preferably drunk, so you can tell off everyone again in person

Report back.

Even better, post an email on Facebook and tag them.

[Anonymous]

Ha.

For evites,sometimes only one person per family gets them OP. Please chill. You are invited.

[Anonymous]

if he had sent invites in the mail, would you be in a snit that he didn't mail two, one for each of you? Of course not. How about if he called and did the invite that way? Would he be expected to call each of you individually? Of course not. Stop being an idiot and either go or don't go, but your acting like a fool and you need to grow up before you embarrass yourself even more.

[Anonymous]

I cannot imagine your DH is pretty angry. That sounds like you projecting. There are so many more things in the world to be upset about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You and your DH seem to enjoy creating drama and overreacting. No wonder your BIL isn't a fan of yours!

Yep

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:if he had sent invites in the mail, would you be in a snit that he didn't mail two, one for each of you? Of course not. How about if he called and did the invite that way? Would he be expected to call each of you individually? Of course not. Stop being an idiot and either go or don't go, but your acting like a fool and you need to grow up before you embarrass yourself even more.

+1 to all of this.

I can see who is probably causing the relationship to be strained.

[Anonymous]

You must love, love seeing something that isn't there. Evite to your email too? If it was paper invitation, should they have mailed two? You will die alone.

[Anonymous]

Unless the Evite specifically says it's just for your husband?

[Anonymous]

Dumb. No one sends two evites to a family. Are you 90 years old?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That's not how evite works. It's not like an envelope that only has DH's name. I often invite an entire family but use only one email address, or it's hard to keep track of who has or hasn't rsvp'ed. DH should RSVP for both of you.

This. You're getting mad over nothing.

+1 op, you are making a huge deal about absolutely nothing. He rsvps for two. Done

This. he puts plus one, that's all.

[Anonymous]

This has to be a joke, right??? Do you know how evites work???

[Anonymous]

Oh FOR THE LOVE.

Be sure to be petty about this and see it as a snub. Gee, can't imagine why you have strained relationships iwth people.

[Anonymous]

Please, OP...come back and at least let us know that you've learned something today about EVITE.

At least we will all have felt that this thread was useful.

[Anonymous]

Rare unanimity on DCUM. That should tell you something, OP.