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i know i've seen hu to also mean hate you, but it would depend on how it was used.
as a teacher, i know that hooking up means a whole slew of things. however, 'wanna hang out?' usually just means mess around/oral and that's it. actual conversation i've heard between students: girl: he asked me if i wanted to hook up last night girl 2: ooo, did you? girl: i told him no, but we could hang out girl 2: ooo, is he good? he has a wide tongue, so i bet he's good. i tend to start doing the internal la la la at that point because i don't want to know that. kids forget teachers exist 99% of the time. it's both a gift and a curse. |
| really? I guess I am naïve, I thought 'hang out' literally meant just spend time together. Is this actually a common use of "hang out'? My DC is in 9th grade too and yes I read his texts! |
It's completely individual to the teen and his/her peer group. It's the same as how we would say "hook up" in college to mean anything ranging from making out to having penetrative intercourse. |
LMAAAAAAOOOOO This right here is everything wrong with America right now |
Same here, and one of my kids actually did decide they didn't want a phone with our conditions. While I'm responsible for them (both in terms of guiding them to adulthood and in terms of legal liability), I consider it perfectly reasonable to know what they're doing on the phone/internet - especially since I pay for the devices they use. |
NP. It means the same thing when I was in high school and college (I'm 35). Anything from kissing to sex. I now use it to mean those things + meet up, depending on context ("great, let's hook up after work at the park"). |