When you think your best friend is having an affair.......

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It could just be a work crush. I had a major work crush and did all these things but it was not an affair.

I was thinking gym crush.

[Anonymous]

When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

[Anonymous]

Just say you've noticed such and such about her and that you wanted to tell her that she looks amazing! She won't suspect that you're fishing, but may be dying to confide in someone, and that may open the door.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

Instead, PP might believe that change doesn’t happen simply for change’s sake. It happens for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

Instead, PP might believe that change doesn’t happen simply for change’s sake. It happens for a reason.

So ask her friend the reason instead of jumping to conclusions or telling the husband unconfirmed suspicions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

Instead, PP might believe that change doesn’t happen simply for change’s sake. It happens for a reason.

She’s a “cheating ho” and everyone responding is a “cheater?” Give me a break. PP is a misogynist, and so are you for defending them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

Instead, PP might believe that change doesn’t happen simply for change’s sake. It happens for a reason.

She’s a “cheating ho” and everyone responding is a “cheater?” Give me a break. PP is a misogynist, and so are you for defending them.

Written like a true cheater. How many affairs have you had?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When changes like this suddenly start occurring, rest assured there is a reason. And usually it’s another man. “The new tingles have awakened me!”

Yep, she’s a cheatin’ Ho too. Speak to her DH and ignore the advice the cheaters of DCUM are giving you.

What? How about talking to her first before telling her husband something based on your suspicions alone. You don’t know the reason for her changes and the husband can see how she’s changed.

You sound like a great friend.

Instead, PP might believe that change doesn’t happen simply for change’s sake. It happens for a reason.

She’s a “cheating ho” and everyone responding is a “cheater?” Give me a break. PP is a misogynist, and so are you for defending them.

Written like a true cheater. How many affairs have you had?

Go away troll

[Anonymous]

If she's your best friend, just share what you wrote in the OP minus the speculation about her having an affair. "Hey Millicent, I've noticed x, y, z changes. How are you feeling? What's going on with you?"-and preferably have this conversation at bar and plan to uber/lyft home.

[Anonymous]

Mind your own business. She might be getting ready to divorce him and is getting her "stuff together" before she has to get on the dating scene.

I wish the some of the divorced men would do the same before they enter the market.

[Anonymous]

Does she seem happy, or “off?” Maybe she just got tired of carrying the extra pounds and decided to make a change for herself, and one thing led to another (better diet and weight loss often leads to more energy).

[Anonymous]

I had no idea that getting off your ass and improving yourself meant that you are cheating on your spouse. Glad DCUM cleared that up for me!

[Anonymous]

Wait, this is supposedly your best friend and you're quietly judging her and wondering instead of plying her with wine and being all "bitch, TELL"? Then you guys aren't "best friends".

[Anonymous]

OP, I have no idea why people are being such assholes.

I'm in a similar situation. My friend has always been gorgeous and hasn't changed her appearance, but she's said before that she and her husband are basically friends and co-parents (she respects him but doesn't think of him romantically). She talks constantly about a guy at work, and once I saw her text him "ilysm" (which I had to google but apparently means "I love you so much). Sure, it could be in a friendly way, but I have suspicions.

Think I need to MYOB though. if she wanted to say it, she would, and if I accused her and it weren't true, it could ruin our friendship.