When do your tween/teens go number two?

[Anonymous]

16 year old, right after school. I know because she runs inside as soon as she drops her bag down.
It’s a normal bodily function, what’s so disgusting about it?

[Anonymous]

When my son potty trained he somehow switched his poop schedule from 10am to “after snack / while I am making dinner”. He told me “no one else poops at school”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First off, I have no clue when he shits. Why would I even know this? Anyways, he should not need 10 minutes. Just because you need 10 minutes, does not mean he does too. Tell him to hurry up and go back. 10 minutes is too long. He is playing around or walking super slow.

Some people do need 10 minutes.

Op I have no clue when my kid takes a dump. If he needs longer he takes it.

Try feeding yours more fiber later in the day. It may help.

[Anonymous]

OP - he needs to change his schedule.

I recommend a few sips of coffee first thing in the morning.

That gets me going, first thing.

And fiber.

I know you are getting a lot of crap for this post, but bowel issues are embarrassing and the range of normal varies. His habits are normal, but changeable.

[Anonymous]

This is painful for me to read. In high school I was often getting into trouble for taking too long in the bathroom. I could not help it - I had to go after lunch and it did take a little for completion despite the urgency to start. I was diagnosed with IBS in college, btw.

[Anonymous]

This thread is vile.

No one shits at school since there are no doors on the stalls.

[Anonymous]

No idea. He shouldn't be taking that long in the bathroom, tell him to figure it out. Helicoptering and entitled behavior at a whole new level. No wonder teachers are frustrated with parents, that you would actually defend him leaving for 10+ minutes from class? So gross.

[Anonymous]

Taking 10 minutes means he is constipated. It shouldn't be that difficult to pass a BM.

1 - up his water intake. He might have to pee more often, but that should be quick (particularly as a guy).

2 - up his fiber intake, even if it means Metamucil.

3 - if 1 & 2 don't make things faster and more comfortable, it is time for a visit to the doctor. And possibly a therapist in case there is a mental health issue behind the problem.

And I have no idea when my middle school kid poops. She hates the bathrooms at school, so not there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is vile.

No one shits at school since there are no doors on the stalls.

You are cruel.

Not everyone has the same bowel needs, so take your vitriol elsewhere. And many schools do have doors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he get to take his phone when he goes to the school bathroom? If so, that’s why he’s taking so long.

I don’t know when mine go, but I do know if I see them walking to the bathroom with their phone in hand, it’s going to be a while.

I now have a “no phones in the bathroom before school” rule so that everyone moves at a normal pace instead of a checking phone pace.

+1 DH will be in the bathroom for half an hour if he has his phone with him. Sometimes I shut off the modem briefly but leave the wireless router on so his internet connection won’t work. Magically he’s done pooping within a minute or two and is out checking the modem and router ASAP.

I sent my son and husband the article about the guy in China who was on his phone in the bathroom for 30 mins. and his rectum became detached and fell out. It worked wonders!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is vile.

No one shits at school since there are no doors on the stalls.

What the heck school is this?!

My kid's school took away the doors off the main bathroom entrance to deter smoking and vaping, but the stalls still have doors.

OMG! I'd never survive in a school without stall doors. Even in the women's room? You just change your tampon or pad right there in front of everyone? Some things should only be done behind closed doors.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't need 10 minutes. He's just telling you that because he doesn't want to get in trouble for whatever he's doing that is making him late.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he get to take his phone when he goes to the school bathroom? If so, that’s why he’s taking so long.

I don’t know when mine go, but I do know if I see them walking to the bathroom with their phone in hand, it’s going to be a while.

I now have a “no phones in the bathroom before school” rule so that everyone moves at a normal pace instead of a checking phone pace.

+1 DH will be in the bathroom for half an hour if he has his phone with him. Sometimes I shut off the modem briefly but leave the wireless router on so his internet connection won’t work. Magically he’s done pooping within a minute or two and is out checking the modem and router ASAP.

Ugh. The second I announce dinner is ready and the rest of us sit down, DH disappears to shit for 15 minutes. Annoying AF. We've had discussions about it, but he says he just doesn't know. I tell him to go at work so he's paid to shit.

Our son does this. Dinnertime has been "his time" since he was little. I try to laugh about it...but it drives my husband nuts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He doesn't need 10 minutes. He's just telling you that because he doesn't want to get in trouble for whatever he's doing that is making him late.

Agree. He is either doing something else or purposely trying to get out of class. This would never have flown in my house. I do not buy for one second that poor Johnny Snowflake has to take a poopie during class every time.

[Anonymous]

Why? Just. Why.