Meeting a couple for first time: wife JUST transitioned

[Anonymous]

So my two cents? Since this transition is so recent, the family is also probably still figuring out how they present themselves to others. They may still be a little bit awkward about this themselves. They may not have figured out how (or if) they want to discuss it, or if it's something they prefer to keep private.

But I bet that if they are nice people, they will be just fine as long as you are respectful and good guests -- and vice versa; as long as they are respectful of you, and good hosts, you will also be fine. I would not worry too much about saying the "wrong thing". Just be yourself.

[Anonymous]

Late for this get together, but since OP asked here's an easy "trans 101" resource that we've found helpful. https://transwhat.org/allyship/

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about the 4 year old. Unlikely he will ask any questions and even he does a 4 year olds questions don't come with judgment.