Would you Date Someone If.

[Anonymous]

You need to sleep with your “friends” GF, then you’ll be even.
Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

No. Are you looking for a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I probably wouldn't be comfortable with it initially, but if I was really into the person I would keep dating them. If I felt "meh"...I'd probably break it off.

[Anonymous]

no

[Anonymous]

No. I’d have all these images in my head of them doing things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Are you looking for a virgin?

I meant, no, wouldn’t bother me.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I’d care. A long relationship would be a no-no, but a few dates and a bang? No big deal.

[Anonymous]

The only concern is whether she will encounter this friend of yours again and this will generate a renewal of interest from either him or her.

[Anonymous]

I have a big social circle and there's definitely been some of this at play within it. I've stayed friends with a few people I dated over the years, and now I'm friends with their wives or girlfriends. I don't bring it up, I don't know if they know, and clearly if they do, it doesn't matter to them.

I don't think your situation is a big deal. She might feel that it is, and hopefully nobody will make her feel like a ho because of it.

[Anonymous]

Not an issue for me if it wasn't going to mess up our friendship. I was only the first for 2 women. I think it's who is last that counts.

[Anonymous]

No I would not

[Anonymous]

It's a small world. If you like her, date her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You found out they slept with a friend of yours before knowing you? This is my current situation. My new girlfriend met a group of my friends for the first time this past weekend. She was new to the area, and met one of my friends ( close by not best friends) while at a bar. They went on a couple dates and slept together, but nothing came out of it. We met about a month later online. We have met right around the new year. I feel like I might catch some crap for it, but I really like her and want to see where this goes.

If you catch crap for it, she's not your friend, and you should cut ties with her regardless.

[Anonymous]

Who cares if she slept with your acquaintance before she met you. You all need to be adults and if you like her, I would not let this detail ruin it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who cares if she slept with your acquaintance before she met you. You all need to be adults and if you like her, I would not let this detail ruin it.

Yes, I'm wondering why it bothers OP. You might want to take a look at that, OP. Even though I don't think it's worth worrying about, maybe it's a deal-breaker for you.