Are proxies banned from DCUM?

Anonymous
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:Actually, the reason that you can't post is because you (or someone using your computer) have been trying to post inappropriate photos of children. It is exactly because pervs like you use proxies that I block them.


Not the PP but I'd be REALLY careful with such accusations .... like REALLY careful. And I say this not as an adversary, but as someone who was a victim of arrogant accusations - it didn't end well for the accuser...at ALL.


The poster just admitted it. You should really learn to read before commenting. You continually make yourself look foolish.



I understand he admitted that he posted such photos and I did see that. My point is that posting to the community at large is arrogant and that arrogance will eventually catch up to you. I've seen it happen to others.

It might feel good to do this, I get that. It might also feel good for you to call people racists, homophobes, etc, That only serves to paint a picture of you that could present a future problem

It would have been more appropriate for you to have stated to the person that they were blocked for legitimate reasons involving what you thought was a breach of DCUM rules and possibly the law, and that you were not willing to take that risk with a business that you run.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is a real can of worms. A nasty can of worms. Jeff would you consider deleting this one?


I think Jeff should to further protect himself. I say that as a business person and I mean that seriously.
jsteele
Site Admin Online
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:Actually, the reason that you can't post is because you (or someone using your computer) have been trying to post inappropriate photos of children. It is exactly because pervs like you use proxies that I block them.


Not the PP but I'd be REALLY careful with such accusations .... like REALLY careful. And I say this not as an adversary, but as someone who was a victim of arrogant accusations - it didn't end well for the accuser...at ALL.


The poster just admitted it. You should really learn to read before commenting. You continually make yourself look foolish.



I understand he admitted that he posted such photos and I did see that. My point is that posting to the community at large is arrogant and that arrogance will eventually catch up to you. I've seen it happen to others.

It might feel good to do this, I get that. It might also feel good for you to call people racists, homophobes, etc, That only serves to paint a picture of you that could present a future problem

It would have been more appropriate for you to have stated to the person that they were blocked for legitimate reasons involving what you thought was a breach of DCUM rules and possibly the law, and that you were not willing to take that risk with a business that you run.


I am not in the pervert protection business. Sadly I am not surprised that you would place a priority on pervert rights. Of course, if the pervert were a Muslim, you would be singing a much different tune. Please take your pervert rights campaign elsewhere.
jsteele
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Anonymous wrote:This is a real can of worms. A nasty can of worms. Jeff would you consider deleting this one?


I think it is important for folks to know what I deal with here. Not only trolls like the OP, but those who defend them.

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Anonymous
There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you
jsteele
Site Admin Online
Anonymous wrote:There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you


She doesn’t want the pervert to be labeled a “pervert”. That’s protecting the pervert. She has no interest in protecting me as she has engaged in repeated attacks on me both here and elsewhere. Given how much effort she devotes to criticizing my every move, including calling out an admitted pervert, I am always astonished that she continues using DCUM.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:Actually, the reason that you can't post is because you (or someone using your computer) have been trying to post inappropriate photos of children. It is exactly because pervs like you use proxies that I block them.


Not the PP but I'd be REALLY careful with such accusations .... like REALLY careful. And I say this not as an adversary, but as someone who was a victim of arrogant accusations - it didn't end well for the accuser...at ALL.


The poster just admitted it. You should really learn to read before commenting. You continually make yourself look foolish.



I understand he admitted that he posted such photos and I did see that. My point is that posting to the community at large is arrogant and that arrogance will eventually catch up to you. I've seen it happen to others.

It might feel good to do this, I get that. It might also feel good for you to call people racists, homophobes, etc, That only serves to paint a picture of you that could present a future problem

It would have been more appropriate for you to have stated to the person that they were blocked for legitimate reasons involving what you thought was a breach of DCUM rules and possibly the law, and that you were not willing to take that risk with a business that you run.


That poster is anon. Jeff wasn't making an accusation, he was explaining a situation. I for one, am fairly surprised at what the poster is willing to admit to, and appreciate that Jeff lets us have some insight into the things he has to deal with on a daily basis.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:Actually, the reason that you can't post is because you (or someone using your computer) have been trying to post inappropriate photos of children. It is exactly because pervs like you use proxies that I block them.


Not the PP but I'd be REALLY careful with such accusations .... like REALLY careful. And I say this not as an adversary, but as someone who was a victim of arrogant accusations - it didn't end well for the accuser...at ALL.


The poster just admitted it. You should really learn to read before commenting. You continually make yourself look foolish.



I understand he admitted that he posted such photos and I did see that. My point is that posting to the community at large is arrogant and that arrogance will eventually catch up to you. I've seen it happen to others.

It might feel good to do this, I get that. It might also feel good for you to call people racists, homophobes, etc, That only serves to paint a picture of you that could present a future problem

It would have been more appropriate for you to have stated to the person that they were blocked for legitimate reasons involving what you thought was a breach of DCUM rules and possibly the law, and that you were not willing to take that risk with a business that you run.


That poster is anon. Jeff wasn't making an accusation, he was explaining a situation. I for one, am fairly surprised at what the poster is willing to admit to, and appreciate that Jeff lets us have some insight into the things he has to deal with on a daily basis.


Agreed. My point is that people who go to those lengths are generally mentally not fit. I would be very careful, would I Jeff (given he has to put out who he is as moderator) when dealing with people like this.
Anonymous
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you


She doesn’t want the pervert to be labeled a “pervert”. That’s protecting the pervert. She has no interest in protecting me as she has engaged in repeated attacks on me both here and elsewhere. Given how much effort she devotes to criticizing my every move, including calling out an admitted pervert, I am always astonished that she continues using DCUM.


Let me be perfectly clear: As an IT person myself, I don't understand of your style of moderation. I believe when you run a site where your bread and butter is ensuring anonymity, exposing people you do not like to the general public in the forum is not wise. You do not know how far others will take things because you can't ensure the mental fitness of every poster. Furthermore, when you engage in name calling and accusations, you open yourself up for criticism.

I've stated before and will state again that my statements against your behavior on forum do not extend to you personally and/or professionally. I don't know you and respect you for having built this business into what it is. Entrepreneurship is to be rewarded. My 'beef', if it can be called that, is in the interest of fairness and respect towards your fellow posters on your forum - I think you lack both.
Anonymous
I recognize that poster by his comment "as I said before, you can't get rid of me." That is the same phrase - "you can't get rid of me" - used by the poster trolling to upset Jews with simultaneous asinine threads on the religion forum.

I know that you (Jeff) can block IP addresses, but can you identify and block specific devices? I'm thinking this poster, who now admits to being (a very childish) 21, has graced us with his inflammatory comments throughout the forum. I can't imagine he'd go over to friends' houses to use their devices, so would that work in making this troll go away?

jsteele
Site Admin Online
Anonymous wrote:I recognize that poster by his comment "as I said before, you can't get rid of me." That is the same phrase - "you can't get rid of me" - used by the poster trolling to upset Jews with simultaneous asinine threads on the religion forum.

I know that you (Jeff) can block IP addresses, but can you identify and block specific devices? I'm thinking this poster, who now admits to being (a very childish) 21, has graced us with his inflammatory comments throughout the forum. I can't imagine he'd go over to friends' houses to use their devices, so would that work in making this troll go away?



Yes, it is the same poster. I don't comment on what I can and can't do because that would be providing helpful information to people like the OP. I prefer to keep them guessing. But, I will say the OP is already discovering problems posting that she likely didn't expect.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you


She doesn’t want the pervert to be labeled a “pervert”. That’s protecting the pervert. She has no interest in protecting me as she has engaged in repeated attacks on me both here and elsewhere. Given how much effort she devotes to criticizing my every move, including calling out an admitted pervert, I am always astonished that she continues using DCUM.


Let me be perfectly clear: As an IT person myself, I don't understand of your style of moderation. I believe when you run a site where your bread and butter is ensuring anonymity, exposing people you do not like to the general public in the forum is not wise. You do not know how far others will take things because you can't ensure the mental fitness of every poster. Furthermore, when you engage in name calling and accusations, you open yourself up for criticism.

I've stated before and will state again that my statements against your behavior on forum do not extend to you personally and/or professionally. I don't know you and respect you for having built this business into what it is. Entrepreneurship is to be rewarded. My 'beef', if it can be called that, is in the interest of fairness and respect towards your fellow posters on your forum - I think you lack both.

No one cares how you feel about this though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you


She doesn’t want the pervert to be labeled a “pervert”. That’s protecting the pervert. She has no interest in protecting me as she has engaged in repeated attacks on me both here and elsewhere. Given how much effort she devotes to criticizing my every move, including calling out an admitted pervert, I am always astonished that she continues using DCUM.


Let me be perfectly clear: As an IT person myself, I don't understand of your style of moderation. I believe when you run a site where your bread and butter is ensuring anonymity, exposing people you do not like to the general public in the forum is not wise. You do not know how far others will take things because you can't ensure the mental fitness of every poster. Furthermore, when you engage in name calling and accusations, you open yourself up for criticism.

I've stated before and will state again that my statements against your behavior on forum do not extend to you personally and/or professionally. I don't know you and respect you for having built this business into what it is. Entrepreneurship is to be rewarded. My 'beef', if it can be called that, is in the interest of fairness and respect towards your fellow posters on your forum - I think you lack both.


I fully support Jeff if he's not completely fair or respectful of Islamophobes and child porn perverts. Keeps me coming back.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is defense of f this person. Seems the pp was trying to protect you


She doesn’t want the pervert to be labeled a “pervert”. That’s protecting the pervert. She has no interest in protecting me as she has engaged in repeated attacks on me both here and elsewhere. Given how much effort she devotes to criticizing my every move, including calling out an admitted pervert, I am always astonished that she continues using DCUM.


Let me be perfectly clear: As an IT person myself, I don't understand of your style of moderation. I believe when you run a site where your bread and butter is ensuring anonymity, exposing people you do not like to the general public in the forum is not wise. You do not know how far others will take things because you can't ensure the mental fitness of every poster. Furthermore, when you engage in name calling and accusations, you open yourself up for criticism.

I've stated before and will state again that my statements against your behavior on forum do not extend to you personally and/or professionally. I don't know you and respect you for having built this business into what it is. Entrepreneurship is to be rewarded. My 'beef', if it can be called that, is in the interest of fairness and respect towards your fellow posters on your forum - I think you lack both.

No one cares how you feel about this though.


Fair enough.
Anonymous
jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is a real can of worms. A nasty can of worms. Jeff would you consider deleting this one?


I think it is important for folks to know what I deal with here. Not only trolls like the OP, but those who defend them.


okay, I can understand that. I'm really sorry you have to deal with these people, and keep having to deal with them. I wish there was a way of getting rid of them, permanently.
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