Unsolicited advice for young women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so let's review what we've learned this week from the font of knowledge that is DCUM:


A man with a healthy relationship with his mother is a mama's boy. Avoid these men, they are creeps.

A man with a bad relationship with his mothe is a volatile confused jerk with anger issues who will lash out at you in misdirected rate. Avoid these men, they are dangerous.

A man who didn't have a mother at all is an incomplete person, and missing all the psychological components needed for interacting with a female. Avoid these men, they are weird.





There you have it.

That is accurate DCUM advice and it's sad.

[Anonymous]

This has always rang completely true in my case.

My last boyfriend had a terrible relationship w/his Mom & the anger he manifested over that spilled out to me all the time.

It was just awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so let's review what we've learned this week from the font of knowledge that is DCUM:


A man with a healthy relationship with his mother is a mama's boy. Avoid these men, they are creeps.

A man with a bad relationship with his mothe is a volatile confused jerk with anger issues who will lash out at you in misdirected rate. Avoid these men, they are dangerous.

A man who didn't have a mother at all is an incomplete person, and missing all the psychological components needed for interacting with a female. Avoid these men, they are weird.





There you have it.

you forgot the most important

a woman with a fat mother , is someone to run away from.

[Anonymous]

I have a bad relationship with my mother because she is borderline and everyone has a bad relationship with her.

I'd like to think I'm a good husband and father but according to OP and some PPs I'm delusional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so let's review what we've learned this week from the font of knowledge that is DCUM:


A man with a healthy relationship with his mother is a mama's boy. Avoid these men, they are creeps.

A man with a bad relationship with his mothe is a volatile confused jerk with anger issues who will lash out at you in misdirected rate. Avoid these men, they are dangerous.

A man who didn't have a mother at all is an incomplete person, and missing all the psychological components needed for interacting with a female. Avoid these men, they are weird.





There you have it.

LOL. But seriously, DEFINITELY go for the guy who has a healthy (and that means deep appreciation but has become his own person) ) relationship with his mother.

[Anonymous]

What if his mom is a lunatic and he avoids her? Wouldn’t that be common sense?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:52% of women have some type of psychotic disorder, which is likely the cause of bad relationship between son/mother.

43% of men make up meaningless statistics.

100% of women think they know everything.

100% of women KNOW they know everything. LOL!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it with women who over-indulge their boys? Is it some type of inferiority complex they have? It really shows when you see how they don't over-indulge with their girls.

It goes the other way too. Dad will treat his daughter like a princess, then be a hard-ass when it comes to his son.

Except most mothers are with the kids much more time than most fathers, so that damage of the boys is more profound.

[Anonymous]

All posted so far is nothing but bunch of rubbish. First born child generally has very close and loving relationships with the opposite gender parent. Look around, you will see that it is true. That same parent loves all her/his kids, but that first born is often very attached to that parent. If that relationship is healthy or not depends on both of them. But, women in general are incredible chauvinists, I will admit it. I know because my mom is one of them. She is from Europe, and independent herself and just yesterday she told me that my DS should change the tires on my car, as it is not a woman's job and that somebody should take care of me! She also said we need to buy a broom for my DD! I posted several times how nuts she was when DD/teen visited her and just harping and criticizing if she wasn't a perfect "lady" or cleaning or helping with the house chores. My DS, 18, just visited and she said how she ironed every thing for him, cooked everything and while he is not tidy, that is ok he came there for a vacation!! Oh, and he is the nicest kid she ever saw or met. I have worked so hard not to make any of these mistakes with my kids, so it rubs her so wrong that DD is so independent. This all from a woman who runs her own business, is always right, everybody is stupid but her, still has ton of income at 70, but it is only ok for HER. It makes me sick, there is nothing "unconscious" dictionary about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All posted so far is nothing but bunch of rubbish. First born child generally has very close and loving relationships with the opposite gender parent. Look around, you will see that it is true. That same parent loves all her/his kids, but that first born is often very attached to that parent. If that relationship is healthy or not depends on both of them. But, women in general are incredible chauvinists, I will admit it. I know because my mom is one of them. She is from Europe, and independent herself and just yesterday she told me that my DS should change the tires on my car, as it is not a woman's job and that somebody should take care of me! She also said we need to buy a broom for my DD! I posted several times how nuts she was when DD/teen visited her and just harping and criticizing if she wasn't a perfect "lady" or cleaning or helping with the house chores. My DS, 18, just visited and she said how she ironed every thing for him, cooked everything and while he is not tidy, that is ok he came there for a vacation!! Oh, and he is the nicest kid she ever saw or met. I have worked so hard not to make any of these mistakes with my kids, so it rubs her so wrong that DD is so independent. This all from a woman who runs her own business, is always right, everybody is stupid but her, still has ton of income at 70, but it is only ok for HER. It makes me sick, there is nothing "unconscious" dictionary about it.

WHHHHAAAAAT???? RUBBISH?????

I can't believe you said that.

Everybody knows first born children are rule-followers and perfectionists, middle children try to smooth everything over and make everybody love everybody else, and the youngest are hell-raisers and do whatever the f they want.

[Anonymous]

Don't date anyone who has a bad relationships you their parents or siblings, man and woman.

Only date people who are close to their families.

Watch how the person you date is with your parents. If they don't form a close bind with your family, their future in laws, don't date them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:52% of women have some type of psychotic disorder, which is likely the cause of bad relationship between son/mother.

43% of men make up meaningless statistics.

100% of women think they know everything.

100% of women KNOW they know everything. LOL!

21% of men know women know they know everything

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't date anyone who has a bad relationships you their parents or siblings, man and woman.

Only date people who are close to their families.

Watch how the person you date is with your parents. If they don't form a close bind with your family, their future in laws, don't date them.

No never date anyone who has a close relationship with their family. Those people are not functioning adults.

[Anonymous]

Of course I called rubbish on this thread. So it is a woman's fault, yet again, that husbands are jerks, insensitive, bcs over 50% of women are psychotic? Even what I wrote is in most cases, often... not a rule. Somehow DCUM is turning into complete misogynist crap run by women who yet again absolve men of any wrong doing on their own, and let's blame mothers now, and then wives, and then women in general. Guess what, those same "psychotic" moms raised daughters too. Where is a thread about excusing women of everything under the sun?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so let's review what we've learned this week from the font of knowledge that is DCUM:


A man with a healthy relationship with his mother is a mama's boy. Avoid these men, they are creeps.

A man with a bad relationship with his mothe is a volatile confused jerk with anger issues who will lash out at you in misdirected rate. Avoid these men, they are dangerous.

A man who didn't have a mother at all is an incomplete person, and missing all the psychological components needed for interacting with a female. Avoid these men, they are weird.





There you have it.

Just marry a man who lost his father. They're the best!