I would agree with you if the drop-off in soccer were comparable to the drop-off in other sports, but the drop for soccer was four to five times as much as the other sports cited. That means there's a problem in youth soccer that doesn't exist in other youth sports. |
| Does anyone know the numbers for football? Most parents I know won’t allow football because of the concussion risk, and a couple of them have vetoed soccer once the kids are old enough for headers. |
Agree. 6-12 yrs old are prime youth participation time as well. |
PW county tends to put out the most competitive rec teams, based on the All-Star results. |
It's a time issue, just wait to see a lot of the kids in travel and in the 90's join the volunteer group. Plenty of coaches in their twenties on the travel side, that's because they're trying to make $ while doing what they like. Once they have children of their own, they will be part of the rec teams. Nothing we can do about parents who played baseball and football growing up, and are just phoning it in at their U5-U10 rec teams before their DC are old enough to be in basketball, baseball, or football, or gymnastics/dance. |
If you want others to have the same commitment, then you need to step up. Be the one that volunteers for the van pool in rec. Also, it's telling to see that you would want others to have commitment in rec soccer, but the minute something fancies your kid and you decide to miss practice or a game, you want it to be ok with the coach. Basically, if you show up, you want everybody else to show up; if you don't show up, you don't want anybody complaining that you didn't show up...
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We are in our 40s and both played D-1 soccer. My husband and I both coached rec until the kids started travel in 3rd grade. With our careers, there’s no way in hell we could coach travel (or want to). There are many of us around that grew up in the travel clubs around here. We tend to be the cynical ones only because we’ve seen it all before and knew a lot of the people now running the Clubs and leagues back when we all were playing. |
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Travel and rec soccer are not the same thing. They are not even the same game. Rec soccer makes it’s money with the younger kids- no refs, no paid coaches, etc. Little supervision of the coaching and no fundamentals. By 2nd to 3rd grade most kids leave rec.
I don’t blame them either. I have seen many kids who showed some promise and interest in the game get stuck at fullback/defense because the coach’s kid play forward or practices where the one kid who has some dribbling skills is tackled and thrown to the ground repeatedly(at 7 years old) because that’s good defense. Till the kid gets hurts and never goes back out. The rec system is just as big a problem as the pay for play system. |
What are you talking about? What van pool? My child has never chosen to miss a practice or game in favor of something else more fun, the only games he has missed in seven seasons of soccer have been due to illness, and once for a funeral. |
the world does not work this way. you can't have travel-level kids playing in the rec system at your son's age. One practice a week is not going to develop the skills needed to be good. also, not sure what travel program you have looked at but we have missed practice and games for birthday parties, other commitments and our coach has been like, 'they are 10 and I get it.' I don't expect my kid to get a scholarship to college but what I do like is seeing the play improve because he is surrounded by players who want to play, enjoy the game and are competitive. I like the coaching, the discipline and the exercise he gets on a regular basis. There is a lot less nonsense on the travel side (vs rec)! Also, the parents on our team are cool and are always willing to help out with transportation, missing uniforms, activities outside soccer, etc... I think you have perceptions of travel that are not accurate. |
| ^^or it could be the particular Club. The pp sounds like they were at our big club. They went nuts if a kid missed for anything starting at 7 years old and kids were treated poorly if they did. They also play in a TON of tournaments even at the earliest ages. Burn out factor very high. There was no feeling of “were in this together”, but more of “how do I step on or put down another kid to improve the chances of my kid moving up.” |
At U4 to U11 there is no "rec system" -- there are individual clubs with largely volunteer rec soccer programs of varying quality. At U11 and above in NoVA/DC -- there is the Suburban Friendship League. Website is http://www.sflsoccer.org SFL does a great job coordinating inter-club games for 20-plus area club rec programs. About 700 local rec teams participate in SFL for spring and fall soccer in ages U11-U19. So there actually are lots of local kids still playing rec soccer beyond U9 or U10 in this area. All SFL games have paid referees, and there are some high quality players, coaches and teams throughout the league. |
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13:24 - I kind of see your point. The makeup of teams does change once kids get funneled off to Travel and developmental. We're in Arlington and our 3rd grade rec team has managed to stay together despite two kids also playing travel and 1 also doing developmental. But those three can get frustrated at times with the kids who screw around at practice and in games.
we got stuck in the birth year thing - my daughter had to try out for travel at the end of first grade. She made it in (barely) but didn't make it for a second year. She just couldn't compete with bigger, more mature kids who had been playing for a full year longer. So we went for developmental, where she's getting a ton more playing time, but gets frustrated at the lack of focus compared to the kids she knew in travel. Meanwhile, the kids who got to try out with their classmates made it onto great travel teams and are doing well not having to "play up." She gets a little frustrated that because of the birth year thing, they're playing travel and she's not. |
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Does anyone think the drop-off might be because of the sheer numbers playing soccer in the first place, vs. the other options? There aren't a ton of options for kindergarten rec sports, and so many parents see it as the gateway sport for kids. Then the kids get a bit older and there are more options and they start doing other things. Then there isn't time for everything, so maybe they drop the soccer in favor of baseball or something else.
The soccer rec system in our county dwarfs any other sport at the early years. Then kids start peeling off for softball/baseball, lacrosse, football, field hockey, etc. once those options become available. |
Please post the club, people not taking their kids there might eventually force the club to change their ways, or they will have less registrations. |