Any other women out there with a lover 20+ years younger?

[Anonymous]

A thread posted a while ago had the DCUM harpies bashes a guy who was forty for dating a 25 year old.

[Anonymous]

Let’s hear from all the 36yo female school teachers banging their students that flood the news?

[Anonymous]

Enjoy it while it lasts - and who knows maybe you are a match. At 49 I "dated" a 23 year old hot guy. Sex was good - not the best but he was so damn cute and eager.

[Anonymous]

I have a woman in my circle of freinds who is in her late 40's. She's been dating an AA male who is in his mid 20's for the last few years. Apparently, he's REALLY good in the sack.

[Anonymous]

Last summer I signed up for a mixed member/guest event at my golf club and my guest had to drop out a few days before. A friend recommended a single guy at least 15 years younger then me (I'm 48 and divorced) and we had a great time and it turned into a brief summer romance. I hadn't been with a guy in that physical condition since I'd been in college and I was very happy with my ability to keep up with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

Sounds like you have a good, realistic outlook on the relationship. I think it's great! Enjoy it while it lasts.

[Anonymous]

When I was 22 I dated a 38 year old divorced mom. By dated I mean lots if hot sex. She wanted more though and I wasn't interested in a relationship. But it was fun for the months that it lasted

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a woman in my circle of freinds who is in her late 40's. She's been dating an AA male who is in his mid 20's for the last few years. Apparently, he's REALLY good in the sack.

She gives you details huh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

You could just say your banging a 29 year old, instead of lover.

He could be your child so it is gross.

Your an almost 50 facing divorce, bragging about a "lover" on an anonymous forum, and you are facing being single the rest of your life, you most certainly have self esteem issues.

Take it one day at a time... like alcoholics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

You could just say your banging a 29 year old, instead of lover.

He could be your child so it is gross.

Your an almost 50 facing divorce, bragging about a "lover" on an anonymous forum, and you are facing being single the rest of your life, you most certainly have self esteem issues.

Take it one day at a time... like alcoholics.

NP.

Sure is important to you to insult this woman, huh? Usually when that comes up, they are the insults the poster thinks would be most cutting. Tells you a lot.

Hey, OP, safe and consensual. Have a good time, love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

You could just say your banging a 29 year old, instead of lover.

He could be your child so it is gross.

Your an almost 50 facing divorce, bragging about a "lover" on an anonymous forum, and you are facing being single the rest of your life, you most certainly have self esteem issues.

Take it one day at a time... like alcoholics.

Disregard this bitter, illiterate person, OP. She probably hasn’t had an orgasm for the last twenty years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

You could just say your banging a 29 year old, instead of lover.

He could be your child so it is gross.

Your an almost 50 facing divorce, bragging about a "lover" on an anonymous forum, and you are facing being single the rest of your life, you most certainly have self esteem issues.

Take it one day at a time... like alcoholics.

Disregard this bitter, illiterate person, OP. She probably hasn’t had an orgasm for the last twenty years.

I don't have them with my own children's friends you are right.

Go ahead, let all the lunatics tell you what you are doing is ethical. It's not ... get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Ha, sorry, I agree the word "lover" is stupid but I can't think of another that fits the situation. He's not my boyfriend or partner or significant other …

I don't have notable self esteem issues. I was married for a long time to a classic D.C. type and we're still friendly and coparenting teens. I'm having a wonderful time with my male friend and just take this day by day.

fwiw, he's 29, a professional I met through work. I imagine he'll split off at some point and follow the script of wife/kids/mortgage, and I'll be OK with that when it happens, as long as he's respectful about it.

You could just say your banging a 29 year old, instead of lover.

He could be your child so it is gross.

Your an almost 50 facing divorce, bragging about a "lover" on an anonymous forum, and you are facing being single the rest of your life, you most certainly have self esteem issues.

Take it one day at a time... like alcoholics.

Disregard this bitter, illiterate person, OP. She probably hasn’t had an orgasm for the last twenty years.

I don't have them with my own children's friends you are right.

Go ahead, let all the lunatics tell you what you are doing is ethical. It's not … get help.

Where did it say OP's adult partner has cognitive disabilities, or is in a coma, or is married or a priest?

Trying to understand how two adults choosing each other is otherwise not "ethical."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a woman in my circle of freinds who is in her late 40's. She's been dating an AA male who is in his mid 20's for the last few years. Apparently, he's REALLY good in the sack.

She gives you details huh?

Yes, if we're out having drinks and the topic comes up she doesn't just sit there tight-lipped. She doesn't brag about it but you can tell she is having the best sex of her life.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, if you are within the age difference formula (your age/2 + 7) you are good. Outside of that range, people will judge. Not that you have to care what they think.