I can’t settle down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:m'eh, you'll be plenty ready to settle down in another ten years.

Problem is, no one is going to settle for you then. In case you haven't noticed, there's not exactly crowds of men beating down church doors to wed 40-something party girls.

Go open any bridal magazine. How many of those brides to be are 40+?

None.

Enjoy the dick-parade now, while you're young and they want you. When it's over, I'd suggest going lesbian and finding a wife with some money. Grow old together. But die first, so the cats don't eat your eyeballs.

I’m fixated on the dick parade here...

[Anonymous]

Either you are a born runner, or else you will eventuality want some emotional security. It took me until I was in my forties. The trick is to find the right guy, one who is exciting and really loves sex, but wil give you some space.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's okay to be like that. But don't drag some unsuspecting guy into your drama.

Some people crave monogamy while others crave adventure. Know who you are and pursue life accordingly. Do not settle down; you'll be miserable, and you'll end up divorcing.

I know several men like you. They are serial daters. They like the chase and novelty. They married, had kids, cheated, and moved on. No more kids with the girlfriends/new wives...keeping their options open.

I know some women like you, and I feel sorry for their husbands. The women are the ones with the issues, yet they blame their husbands. Not fair.

Show me a woman that owns and acknowledges her major faults and the difficulty they cause others and I'll show you a unicorn. Women have a primal fear of accountability and corresponding guilt.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to appreciate what you have until it's gone. Right now, you are the belle of the ball, and it's easy to have men chase you.

It won't always be this easy. Women rule the world from around 18 until their early 30s. I understand that it may not seem that way now. In fact, the sexual attention from men might actually feel like a burden. You'll feel differently when you're 45 and the only men hitting on you are within a few years of receiving their first social security check.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:28 is still young. Keep having fun and see how you feel in a few years.

True, but be careful with this.

28 is young. 30 is not young, at least in terms of meeting a guy, dating, getting married and wanting to have kids.

28 turns into 30 faster than you will believe, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:28 is still young. Keep having fun and see how you feel in a few years.

+1. There is no reason to settle down if you don’t want to and if you don’t want children, why marry at all?

[Anonymous]

A funny thing about aging is that when you are 29, you are young, but when you are 35 you are old. That 5 year 30-35 corridor is weirdly critical time window.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A funny thing about aging is that when you are 29, you are young, but when you are 35 you are old. That 5 year 30-35 corridor is weirdly critical time window.

Nothing funny about it since fertility declines dramatically for women after 35.