Depressed after wedding

[Anonymous]

OP I get it. That was a big day and he should have been on his best behavior yet he got drunk and apparently made an embarrassing scene.

Give it a few years and try to move past this. If you know you've made a bad mistake then divorce him, and find a better partner.

Certainly not the end of the world, just stop dwelling on it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Keep one thing in mind, there are ALWAYS options, I mean ALWAYS. Try to get into the rhythm of the routine and go with the flow, hope you work because that can be your savior.

This. Sometimes just knowing you have lots of choices is enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have had the worst depression of my life the week after getting married.

I don't know what is wrong with me. My life feels closed up and I feel like my options have closed. I am unsure if I have made the best possible choice for my life.

I felt this, too - it was the feeling of closed off options depressing me. It took a few months to pass and I have been happily married since (4 years). If anything, I now enjoy the feeling of closed off options and the deepening intimacy with my DH.

I felt this as well. It was awful! But we have been happily married for 10 years.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to adulthood, OP. Life is a series of closing doors. The longer you live, the fewer choices you have. Until there's only one option left. Cheer up!

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's because for some time, you've had this exciting thing ahead of you and now it's behind you. Maybe you're the kind of person who needs things to look forward to, in order to keep life interesting? Do you have any hobbies? Maybe you can set a goal for yourself, like taking a class to learn a new skill, or plan a trip somewhere new or take up a new form of exercise.