30 weeks pregnant and questioning husbands fidelity

[Anonymous]

My Dh gets emails all the time from sites like that. He used to have accounts, before we ever met and he still gets the junk mail from them. It doesn't bother me at all. Until he gets a specific email from a specific person, then I'm not worried. I still get junk emails from match.com, etc.

[Anonymous]

sorry but it sounds like the two of you were made for each other if your response to his possible infidelity is to cheat on him.

I'm calling the BS detector on this post!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:sorry but it sounds like the two of you were made for each other if your response to his possible infidelity is to cheat on him.

I'm calling the BS detector on this post!

That's not what she said. She was saying that it's ironic that he gets this email/visits the site since she's the one who makes sexual advances to him and he refuses all the time. She didn't say she was going to cheat, she just said that if anyone had a "reason" it would be her since he's the one not wanting to have sex.

[Anonymous]

I am not an expert in this area, but supposedly, a change in sex drive is a sign of cheating (or at least a bigger problem).

You need to make your own decisions on what is best for you at this stage. It is a lot easier to leave pregnant than after the baby is born, because you can make career decisions now, and it is easier to move. Very, very few women think they married a man who would be dishonest and disloyal, but it happens. More important is to continue to be suspicious for a short-while and be prepared. With one child, it is easy, but a couple years later and two children, it will be more difficult, so understand that your choices are long-term choices.