Was I wrong here? Not knowing where the relationship is going / committing one month in.
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Anonymous
| Dodged a bullet. |
Anonymous
| Neither of you is wrong-- you're just not compatible. |
Anonymous
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At 25 I think it's odd for someone to push things so quickly-you both have plenty of time if you want kids-no need to rush into something serious after 5 weekends.
He sounds like he has some significant issues that he needs to address. You're lucky to be done with that relationship, OP. |
Anonymous
This exactly. No you were not wrong. You were being responsible and practical. He was being selfish and very immature. Next! |
Anonymous
| You didn't do anything wrong unless you made him feel bad for asking. It does seem quick to me and you should trust your instincts. Don't close off the idea that he wakes up from this andntries to contact you in the future but it's more likely you never hear from him again. He seems to think it's time he got married. |