Adolescent "mustaches"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unfortunately, DD occasionally has some fuzz that should be bleached (age 16) but due to Instagram accounts touting the superiority of unisexuality, asexuality, androgeny, “intersectional” interests, and other bizarre niches that are looking mainstream to these brainwashed kids, she doesn’t agree with me that it’s necessary to home-bleach the fuzz to look hygienic.

I flippin hate social media for these impressionable kids.

Are you sure you aren't the one who has been brainwashed?

[Anonymous]

Our culture has pivoted toward an aesthetic that requires zero body hair anywhere except the head. Your DD is simply buying in. Seen her naked lately? I'll bet you anything she's shaving.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our culture has pivoted toward an aesthetic that requires zero body hair anywhere except the head. Your DD is simply buying in. Seen her naked lately? I'll bet you anything she's shaving.

I’m talking about UPPER LIP fuzz! Follow the topic at hand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a mother of twin 13-year-old boys, I can honestly say that young teen boys are kind of grody. The screechy voices, oily complexion, and early facial hair is not doing anything for anyone. Basic hygiene is not the first thing on their minds and they have to be specifically told to shower daily and use deodorant or they will never do it. One of my boys is a little more fastidious than the other but he is still learning these things that come so naturally to most girls. For a boy who acts like a daily shower is the biggest inconvenience of his life, I'm going to hold off on expecting him to shave regularly. Maybe next year (or the year after).

They don't come "naturally" to girls either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our culture has pivoted toward an aesthetic that requires zero body hair anywhere except the head. Your DD is simply buying in. Seen her naked lately? I'll bet you anything she's shaving.

That's gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD is in 9th grade and is constantly complaining about boys and the wispy mustaches they have above their lips. DD is in a private school where boys are required to shave, so she doesn't see it there, but for some reason it STILL "disgusts" her. Why is she acting like this about such a trivial matter?

Why are you not teaching your daughter not to be a mean girl?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DD is in 9th grade and is constantly complaining about boys and the wispy mustaches they have above their lips. DD is in a private school where boys are required to shave, so she doesn't see it there, but for some reason it STILL "disgusts" her. Why is she acting like this about such a trivial matter?

Why are you not teaching your daughter not to be a mean girl?

Well, she doesn't say anything to them about it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DD is in 9th grade and is constantly complaining about boys and the wispy mustaches they have above their lips. DD is in a private school where boys are required to shave, so she doesn't see it there, but for some reason it STILL "disgusts" her. Why is she acting like this about such a trivial matter?

Why are you not teaching your daughter not to be a mean girl?

Well, she doesn't say anything to them about it.

Just talks nasty about them behind their backs. That makes it okay.

And you just egg it on. Can’t bring yourself to say Honey try not to be so judgmental?
Yup, Queen bee mom raising a mean girl in her foot steps.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DD is in 9th grade and is constantly complaining about boys and the wispy mustaches they have above their lips. DD is in a private school where boys are required to shave, so she doesn't see it there, but for some reason it STILL "disgusts" her. Why is she acting like this about such a trivial matter?

Why are you not teaching your daughter not to be a mean girl?

Well, she doesn't say anything to them about it.

Just talks nasty about them behind their backs. That makes it okay.

And you just egg it on. Can’t bring yourself to say Honey try not to be so judgmental?
Yup, Queen bee mom raising a mean girl in her foot steps.

This. OP, you need to tell her that she's being rude and judgemental.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't blame her. Since these boys are so obsessed with girls, you'd think they'd bother to not look repulsive.

Huh. At my child's school, it's the girls who are obsessed with the boys. Not the other way around - at ALL.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DD is in 9th grade and is constantly complaining about boys and the wispy mustaches they have above their lips. DD is in a private school where boys are required to shave, so she doesn't see it there, but for some reason it STILL "disgusts" her. Why is she acting like this about such a trivial matter?

Why are you not teaching your daughter not to be a mean girl?

Well, she doesn't say anything to them about it.

Just talks nasty about them behind their backs. That makes it okay.

And you just egg it on. Can’t bring yourself to say Honey try not to be so judgmental?
Yup, Queen bee mom raising a mean girl in her foot steps.

I do. She does feel bad about being grossed out. She doesn't talk about it to friends

[Anonymous]

My 13-year-old son loves his 'stache. He doesn't care what anyone else thinks of it. I wish I had his security and confidence when I was that age. Please tell your daughter what is on my son's face is none of her business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 13-year-old son loves his 'stache. He doesn't care what anyone else thinks of it. I wish I had his security and confidence when I was that age. Please tell your daughter what is on my son's face is none of her business.

How annoying

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a parent and whenever I see these young boys I think why hasn’t their dad or Mom taught them to shave. It does look nasty.

I guess when they decide they want DDs to notice them they will learn about grooming. Shave, pluck those nasty unibrows, etc. (why don’t parents teach their kids to pluck unibrows) it’s even worse when adults don’t groom.

I mentor kids and working and lower-middle class kids will tell me they don't know how to shave, nobody ever taught them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 13-year-old son loves his 'stache. He doesn't care what anyone else thinks of it. I wish I had his security and confidence when I was that age. Please tell your daughter what is on my son's face is none of her business.

This.