Sis in law and her friend

[Anonymous]

Op here! We're considering skipping out on inlaw's Christmas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WHY isn't your husband setting boundaries?????

Np. My guess is Janet is chomping at the bit for OP or op's husband to set a boundary so that she can say "HA! I knew it, OP is a jealous bitter wench

[Anonymous]

00:15 here to finish my sentence. Telling Janet and Kayla to back off will just fuel their drama.

[Anonymous]

Who is Erica?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so my sister in law(Janet)is friends with my husband's ex, Kayla. When I began dating DH, Janet hated Kayla. 5 years later when Janet and I began to have a rocky relationship she became besties with Janet. I didn't have a problem with Kayla as I'm not really a jealous wife. It became pretty clear that Janet was trying to cause conflict with her friendship with Kayla.

Suddenly Kayla was every where. Including the inlaws Christmas. Out of no where Janet tells me I need to get over Kayla being part of the family. We honestly weren't even discussing Kayla and I had never had a problem with Kayla.

Janet continued to push Kayla on us. Janet got pissed because I didn't invite Kayla to my daughters birthday. How dare I hurt Kayla's feelings by not inviting her to my daughter's first birthday. It just kept getting weirder and weirder.

Then Kayla began to date Jason. Jason is Janet's brother in law. Much to Janet's dismay, Jason and Kayla broke up.

For an entire year we didn't hear much about Kayla. Then Jason gets engaged to Erica and guess who's back? That's right, Kayla. Janet invited Kayla to my nephews birthday party. Jason and I were led to believe that Kayla wasn't coming. We were all invited via group text and Kayla responded that she couldn't make it. So erica invited her parents to the party to meet her soon to be family members. The entire time Kayla is baiting her. Subtle but very obvious. I was taking the pictures and I told my father in law to smile for a picture and Kayla hops in the picture. I post all of the pictures and to be polite I added the one of Kayla and father in law. It is now Kayla's profile picture.

I'm hoping Kayla won't be at Christmas festivities but I wouldn't put it past Janet. Am I crazy or is Kayla kind of a shitbag?

Sounds like JANET is the shitbag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here! We're considering skipping out on inlaw's Christmas.

How do the in-laws feel about having your husband's ex at Christmas? Do they know it bothers you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like Janet might be hot for Kayla.

Holy Shit! I was just thinking the same thing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok so my sister in law(Janet)is friends with my husband's ex, Kayla. When I began dating DH, Janet hated Kayla. 5 years later when Janet and I began to have a rocky relationship she became besties with Janet. I didn't have a problem with Kayla as I'm not really a jealous wife. It became pretty clear that Janet was trying to cause conflict with her friendship with Kayla.

Suddenly Kayla was every where. Including the inlaws Christmas. Out of no where Janet tells me I need to get over Kayla being part of the family. We honestly weren't even discussing Kayla and I had never had a problem with Kayla.

Janet continued to push Kayla on us. Janet got pissed because I didn't invite Kayla to my daughters birthday. How dare I hurt Kayla's feelings by not inviting her to my daughter's first birthday. It just kept getting weirder and weirder.

Then Kayla began to date Jason. Jason is Janet's brother in law. Much to Janet's dismay, Jason and Kayla broke up.

For an entire year we didn't hear much about Kayla. Then Jason gets engaged to Erica and guess who's back? That's right, Kayla. Janet invited Kayla to my nephews birthday party. Jason and I were led to believe that Kayla wasn't coming. We were all invited via group text and Kayla responded that she couldn't make it. So erica invited her parents to the party to meet her soon to be family members. The entire time Kayla is baiting her. Subtle but very obvious. I was taking the pictures and I told my father in law to smile for a picture and Kayla hops in the picture. I post all of the pictures and to be polite I added the one of Kayla and father in law. It is now Kayla's profile picture.

I'm hoping Kayla won't be at Christmas festivities but I wouldn't put it past Janet. Am I crazy or is Kayla kind of a shitbag?

I don't see why I should have to choose. Both are possible; from what you've written, both appear to be true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I don't see why I should have to choose. Both are possible; from what you've written, both appear to be true.

Hah! Agreed!

[Anonymous]

Janet is either a huge pot stirrer or is hot for Kayla. Kayla just sounds desperate & pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Your DH needs to tell his pyscho twin to cut it out. Maybe the inlaws need to also tell Janet no friends at holiday...

[Anonymous]

And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

If that is not okay with you, you can say no. Tell your DH to tell her you already have plans. You don't have to hang out with his ex wife all the time.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

If that is not okay with you, you can say no. Tell your DH to tell her you already have plans. You don't have to hang out with his ex wife all the time.

She's not even his ex wife. No kids together either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

That is crazy! What does DH say? Time to make a new plan that SIL is not a part of.