Separated but no plans for divorce

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[Post New]09/30/2017 00:12
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Anonymous
My friend didn't want to bother with the paperwork until he decided that he wanted to buy a vacation property. His wife's boyfriend didn't care either. He got divorced 7 years after the separation (no lawyers).
[Post New]09/30/2017 00:17
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Anonymous
For some reason my ex was proposing separation without the divorce, while living with his gf. I don't know the reason, I wanted to be done, so I got the court date.
[Post New]09/30/2017 03:53
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I've been separated for a year, and we could technically file for divorce any time now. I've not initiated simply for the reason that we have agreed in our separation agreement that he can not introduce his Affair Partner to our children until after the divorce is final. No incentive for me to file the paper work . .. every day my children live without that horrible thing in their lives is a gift.


If I know you IRL, and I may based on this post but I at least know someone similar, with all due respect you need to get over this and move on. You are letting your anger ruin your life. Your friends and family are tired of hearing about the drama constantly.
[Post New]09/30/2017 07:47
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Anonymous
I doubt you know me IRL. Very few people know the details of my situation other than that I'm separated. It is pretty low drama, which is probably why my ex hasn't bothered to file either.
[Post New]09/30/2017 15:55
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Anonymous
This is us. DH has lived separately for eight years now. Neither of us is interested in another committed relationship plus he wants to stay on my health insurance, which he needs. We simply don't want to live together so we don't. If one of us wanted to divorce, we could move forward, but neither can be bothered.
[Post New]09/30/2017 16:19
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've been separated for a year, and we could technically file for divorce any time now. I've not initiated simply for the reason that we have agreed in our separation agreement that he can not introduce his Affair Partner to our children until after the divorce is final. No incentive for me to file the paper work . .. every day my children live without that horrible thing in their lives is a gift.


If I know you IRL, and I may based on this post but I at least know someone similar, with all due respect you need to get over this and move on. You are letting your anger ruin your life. Your friends and family are tired of hearing about the drama constantly.



Said as someone who cheated and puts his AP over his family (or her).
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