how do you stay positive?

[Anonymous]

10:32 here....update.
I'm trying to stay positive. I went in this morning and there was no HB. I totally knew this and it actually felt good to have my intuition confirmed. D&C on Friday. Not the right embryo...sucks. I'm so anxious to have this "I'm pregnant" feeling again. I feel like I was let into "the club" for just a minute and I was permanent access already!

[Anonymous]

New to discussion- but I really hope to give you all hope- I had 4 m/c- 2 d&c's- 2 years of trying and holding off- we were lucky with one IUI and we were somehow blessed with our miracle baby.. i got weepy and wanted a sibling- we are older than the 20s parents and i just imagined our dc alone if we died earlier. This time, we could not conceive naturally- over a year- zero.. then went through 6 iuis and gave up- we had blown our limit on medical insurance for over 10K and then just went through ivf- ivf isn't that different up to a point from iuis - we decided to just do one ivf- first one was cancelled due to i can;t even describe why,.. our last attempt for IVF is a super wonderful almost 2 year old..

I am so sorry for all of those who have felt losses- it;s not a just loss- I had already named every child/imagined every birthday before every cycle or iui or ivf and especially m/c- it destroys you and i wish those of us who really want and appreciate our kids get our child...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:10:32 here....update.
I'm trying to stay positive. I went in this morning and there was no HB. I totally knew this and it actually felt good to have my intuition confirmed. D&C on Friday. Not the right embryo...sucks. I'm so anxious to have this "I'm pregnant" feeling again. I feel like I was let into "the club" for just a minute and I was permanent access already!

op here. so sorry to hear about the news. hope all goes well with the d&c and you heal fast--physically and emotionally. best wishes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:New to discussion- but I really hope to give you all hope- I had 4 m/c- 2 d&c's- 2 years of trying and holding off- we were lucky with one IUI and we were somehow blessed with our miracle baby.. i got weepy and wanted a sibling- we are older than the 20s parents and i just imagined our dc alone if we died earlier. This time, we could not conceive naturally- over a year- zero.. then went through 6 iuis and gave up- we had blown our limit on medical insurance for over 10K and then just went through ivf- ivf isn't that different up to a point from iuis - we decided to just do one ivf- first one was cancelled due to i can;t even describe why,.. our last attempt for IVF is a super wonderful almost 2 year old..

I am so sorry for all of those who have felt losses- it;s not a just loss- I had already named every child/imagined every birthday before every cycle or iui or ivf and especially m/c- it destroys you and i wish those of us who really want and appreciate our kids get our child...

thanks for sharing your struggles and making us feel that there is hope.