Boyfriend ignores me during hackathon weekends

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So OP you are disorganized and expected your boyfriend to drop everything and bail you out of your latest screw up, and are pissed at him for not being your on-call secretary. you are the only one responsible for your life, op, get your own shit together first and stop blaming others for your problems.

OP here: Wait what? How did you jump to this conclusion? Coming home hours later and not letting me know is me screwing up? Not being able to send me an email with an item I really need to order so that I can have a bed is screwing up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you going to answer what it was he was supposed to send you?

OP here: It's a long story and I don't want to give too many details. There is no such thing as different degrees of promise. Either you do or you don't. This counts for the little things too. It really comes down to trust and can't trust his word. He's so flakey.

So why are you here and what exactly do you want from DCUM? You seem to have some clear rules about what you expect from a boyfriend. He's not meeting them. What's your question or your point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you going to answer what it was he was supposed to send you?

OP here: It's a long story and I don't want to give too many details. There is no such thing as different degrees of promise. Either you do or you don't. This counts for the little things too. It really comes down to trust and can't trust his word. He's so flakey.

So why are you here and what exactly do you want from DCUM? You seem to have some clear rules about what you expect from a boyfriend. He's not meeting them. What's your question or your point?

There's this thing called empathy. Maybe you can look it up. I have a feeling you have none.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you going to answer what it was he was supposed to send you?

OP here: It's a long story and I don't want to give too many details. There is no such thing as different degrees of promise. Either you do or you don't. This counts for the little things too. It really comes down to trust and can't trust his word. He's so flakey.

So why are you here and what exactly do you want from DCUM? You seem to have some clear rules about what you expect from a boyfriend. He's not meeting them. What's your question or your point?

There's this thing called empathy. Maybe you can look it up. I have a feeling you have none.

I feel bad for your boyfriend that he is dating such an immature, whiny person. I hope he figures out that he deserves better.

[Anonymous]

I'm mostly convinced you're a troll, but it's early and I'll play.

The fact that you're leveraging sex vs. His compliance for your demands doesn't bode well for your future
The fact that you say you live together but are talking about you (singular) ending a bed vs you (plural) doesn't bode well for your future

Seems to me you also made your demand purposely to interfere with his much anticipated event, in order to compete with his hobby. You lost because he has a backbone and now you're irritated. That doesn't bode well for your future.

Move along. It's going to end badly down the line anyway.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you going to answer what it was he was supposed to send you?

OP here: It's a long story and I don't want to give too many details. There is no such thing as different degrees of promise. Either you do or you don't. This counts for the little things too. It really comes down to trust and can't trust his word. He's so flakey.

So why are you here and what exactly do you want from DCUM? You seem to have some clear rules about what you expect from a boyfriend. He's not meeting them. What's your question or your point?

There's this thing called empathy. Maybe you can look it up. I have a feeling you have none.

I feel bad for your boyfriend that he is dating such an immature, whiny person. I hope he figures out that he deserves better.

So you are not telling us what you wanted him to send you because??? Let's face it, you are mad he is doing something that does not make you the center of attention. Just stop the drama princess.

[Anonymous]

What's your question?

[Anonymous]

There is nothing wrong with leveraging sex. Get a clue you misogynist.

[Anonymous]

you can't order a bed by yourself? woman up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is nothing wrong with leveraging sex. Get a clue you misogynist.

That is so stupid. If she doesn't want to have sex with him, she should f$&k right off. Using your vagina as a bargaining chip is stupid and disgusting. Handle your own business, look up your own information and have sex with him because that's what people in healthy relationships do.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The women here are THE most frustrated people in the world. You got a nerd for a mate. Expect to be second or last on his list.

Trust me his di** is going to be very frustrated after this event........ that's for sure

Not any more. She hasn't heard from him because lots of women at these events--I believe they are called "nerd hags". My son is a computer science major and there are a lot of women who hang around in his groups of friends. Many of them are chubby but they do put out.

[Anonymous]

Folks--No need to respond. Jeff has noted that Ms Hackerthon is a drama queen-likely troll.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/668728.page

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The women here are THE most frustrated people in the world. You got a nerd for a mate. Expect to be second or last on his list.

Trust me his di** is going to be very frustrated after this event........ that's for sure

Not any more. She hasn't heard from him because lots of women at these events--I believe they are called "nerd hags". My son is a computer science major and there are a lot of women who hang around in his groups of friends. Many of them are chubby but they do put out.

What a horrible job you did raising your son if he talks about women that way.

PS He's probably jealous because he can't hack his way out of a paper bag, and those girls run circles around him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck is a hackathon?

the equivalent of an NFL game, but for geek guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Move on. It will only get worse. These men never change.

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