Does he like me?

[Anonymous]

So you ignored him and now are wondering why he is not continuing to pursue you? Yes move on to another guy...so you can do the same thing to him.

[Anonymous]

Do you like him? Then why not look eager?

Call him up and ask him to dinner. If he says no, you'll know he doesn't like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stupid question I know, but I'm back to dating after 3 years of being single. Met a man, hit it off, used to text me all the time, now calls only once a day. He hasn't even asked to go out to dinner or anything.I don't text or call him because I don't want to look "eager". We've been talking for over a month now. I know he has flexibility to text and call at his job. Should I just play it day-day or just drop him and date other people?

What puts you under the impression you're dating this man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stupid question I know, but I'm back to dating after 3 years of being single. Met a man, hit it off, used to text me all the time, now calls only once a day. He hasn't even asked to go out to dinner or anything.I don't text or call him because I don't want to look "eager". We've been talking for over a month now. I know he has flexibility to text and call at his job. Should I just play it day-day or just drop him and date other people?

You must be kidding. He calls you everyday and thats not enough. Do him a favor and break it off. You my dear have serious issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stupid question I know, but I'm back to dating after 3 years of being single. Met a man, hit it off, used to text me all the time, now calls only once a day. He hasn't even asked to go out to dinner or anything.I don't text or call him because I don't want to look "eager". We've been talking for over a month now. I know he has flexibility to text and call at his job. Should I just play it day-day or just drop him and date other people?

You must be kidding. He calls you everyday and thats not enough. Do him a favor and break it off. You my dear have serious issues.

Maybe she's just out of practice.
It has been 3 years since she last dated.

[Anonymous]

It's 2017.

Any + everything (almost!!) goes.

He may think you are not interested in HIM due to your lack of initiative in contacting him.

It really is okay.
Call him tomorrow & ask him out to dinner.
Or a cup of coffee.
Or to attend a concert, art show or play.

It shouldn't be all on him to get the ball rolling.

If he declines, then you will have your answer.

[Anonymous]

Does he throw pencils at you in class? If so, he totally wants your bod. Tease him back and watch the sparks fly!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Drop and date other people, now! He is not into you. If a person (male, female or any gender in between ) likes you, they will show their interest in more than a lukewarm fashion. Sorry and good luck.

Um, he's calling her daily. That is interest. Maybe he's insecure because he always initiates. Calls are more intimate than texts. When he calls tomorrow, ask what he's doing this weekend or when you can see him again. It's not hard.

[Anonymous]

OP, I met my DH on a dating website. We had been messaging back and forth for 3 days, I gave him my number and we started texting. I was a grad student and hit my mid-program point and wanted to celebrate, so I asked him if we could go out (day 5 of communicating). We went, it was great, and 3 years later we were married. Who knows when he would have asked me out if I hadn't done it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I've always thought that if a man likes you, he should reach out to you, you shouldn't have to reach out to them. Shouldn't he make a move?

He calls you once a day, even though you don't call or text him? It's fine -- I guess -- to wait for a guy to make the FIRST move, but he's not going to make every single move.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you like him? Then why not look eager?

Call him up and ask him to dinner. If he says no, you'll know he doesn't like you.

No looking eager means I like him and that would send the wrong impression. LOL yes men are sooo bad....more like we have trained them to be the way we like it....lots and lots of drama!