| I really hope the OP sees the previous post. I hate the idea of her sitting in a hospital room thinking there is no hope. |
No need to enter into details, but was the PTSD due to a sudden event or due to chronic trauma? And has it improved over time? |
I don't mind sharing. My ex was physically abusive. He tried to kill me when he found out I was planning to leave. Held a knife to my throat and then tried to smother me with a pillow because he thought it would be quieter. Then, he tried to take my children overseas. It was an awful few years. All I could think of was my kids. They were 2 and 6 when we finally got away. A domestic violence counselor and my attorney helped me get everything I could into my car at 2am. We drove across country to my parents house. It was a long time ago. My kids are grown. I've been happily remarried for over 20 years. But the PTSD remains. I used to just sit and shake for hours. I don't do that anymore. But, I cannot get past the panic. It comes out of nowhere and is impossible to predict. When it happens, I can't speak. I can't breathe. It's that feeling you get when you decend on a roller coaster. Over and over again. Last time it happened, my DH rushed me to the ER. My blood pressure was 220/180. I hate it. It's completely debilitating. The panic part of PTSD is the hardest to treat. |
I'm so sorry. And so glad you got away. *Hugs.* |
| The OP with PTSD is correct. If these are federal student loans, Google "total and permanent disability"--it will get you started. Good luck. |
| Here's the link for federal loans: https://studentaid.ed.gov/sa/repay-loans/forgiveness-cancellation/disability-discharge |
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My sibling also got $40K for private student loans dismissed for complete disability. Communicate with the lender. Also, apply for SSI/SSD for the person who is ill. It takes forever to get it, so start the process ASAP.
OP, when sudden illness/disability strikes it is financially devastating for the entire family. I am so sorry. As I mentioned, this happened to my sibling and it has changed all of our futures, both personally and financially. |
I am the PP who had her loans discharged due to disability. This poster is correct- apply for SSI/SSD immediately. It can take years and almost everyone is denied the first time. Many attorneys will handle the case at no charge up front. They take their fees from the initial lump sum of back pay. BUT- this is important- you can file for the student loan discharge before you get disability. I'm not on disability and have no reason to file. But my loans were fully discharged. |