Not meshing well sexually
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Daily sex and you have 2 kids??
That just sounds exhausting. |
Anonymous
| I adore my DH and I love sex but everyday? That would lose the opportunity for spontaneity which I think is important. If we go over a week my DH will complain about his "pent up demand'' read: sperm such that 2-3 times a week keeps him happy. |
Anonymous
| Daily too much pressure for me. As for pleasure, what about using toys? Pretty reliable for me. |
Anonymous
Like 2 years ago... |
Anonymous
I thought I was going to "finish" and I didn't and then we change position or something so that I completely lose my groove and it's just gone... |
Anonymous
Okay, mama, there you go. Find a way to take time for yourself, for the good of your marriage. |
Roar
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| Yep -- it's mental. Just like in a groove vs, in a rut. Lots of ways to fix it. Been married about 20 years and went through the exact same thing during year 7-8 and again during menopause. |
Anonymous
How do we fix it? I feel very vulnerable with all of this but I realize that this a nothing to lose situation. Like we need to get out of this rut or else we will continue to be miserable. |
Anonymous
You are overthinking it. Just relax! Start your sessions with 10 minutes using a vibrator while he waits. A good O will relax you. |
Anonymous
| Stop forcing it. Let things occur organically. |
Anonymous
| Have him go down on you thirty minutes a day. |
Anonymous
When you're close to climax don't change position - communicate to your partner that you're close. |
Anonymous
This!!!! |
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| Are you able to, um, take care of yourself quickly? |
Roar
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Could you imagine the strength of his tongue in just 3 weeks? He would be able to shatter an entire stack of cement blocks in one flick. |