Why Not One At A Time?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was casually dating 3 people when I met my husband who became lucky number 4. None of them had gotten so serious that we were sleeping together, but meeting the right one was incredibly obvious when you see three wrong ones up in your face.

How do you differentiate "casual dating" from friendship if you weren't physically involved with any of them?

That's a weird distinction. I was in my early 20's. I went out on dates with men. We made out. Just because you're not sleeping with someone doesn't mean it's friendship instead of dating.

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was casually dating 3 people when I met my husband who became lucky number 4. None of them had gotten so serious that we were sleeping together, but meeting the right one was incredibly obvious when you see three wrong ones up in your face.

How do you differentiate "casual dating" from friendship if you weren't physically involved with any of them?

That's a weird distinction. I was in my early 20's. I went out on dates with men. We made out. Just because you're not sleeping with someone doesn't mean it's friendship instead of dating.

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?

[Anonymous]

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?

At the same time? Please move this to the expicit discussion - stat.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't turn down dates if you and the first person haven't agreed to be exclusive. But I don't think you need to make a great effort to find other people to add to the mix either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?

At the same time? Please move this to the expicit discussion - stat.

Ah ... dating isn't explicit. Simply kissing Joe on Tuesday and Randy on Thursday is not explicit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?

At the same time? Please move this to the expicit discussion - stat.

You need a prude forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?

At the same time? Please move this to the expicit discussion - stat.

You need a prude forum.

You must have been in your 20s in the 50s.

[Anonymous]

Is it the multiple dating partners that is explicit? Or moving from kissing to making out? I'm confused

[ddintysons]

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
So casually dating three people means you are kissing and making out with all of them?

Yes. Haven't you ever been in your 20's?


At the same time? Please move this to the expicit discussion - stat.

Sorry everyone. I was trying to funny. When I said "At the same time" I meant "simulaneously" as in kissing Bill, Mike, and Sam all simultaneously. Sadly, not funny.

To answer another poster (see poster at 8:53), I was never in my 20s and I am still waiting to make out with a girl. My XW would never allow it. At least she would never allow it with me.

Just so the question is answered before it is asked - no, I never made out with a boy. I am not cute enough to be gay.