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For people who are astounded by 3 ADOS rounds by age 10 are missing the point that the OP on top of his/her kid's delays. When they're administered to a very young kid, it's pretty basic and involve things like blowing up a balloon. It's not a big deal at all.
The point of doing a neuropsych evaluation is ultimately to determine what educational supports and/or related therapies would help. As a parent, I two would err on the side of doing a full evaluation and not just the ADOS. A neuropsych can evaluate for autism, but it can also screen for possible additional diagnoses such as... -- anxiety and/or ADHD which can't be diagnosed by the ADOS alone. If this is the case, you may want to consider medications. --dyslexia or dysgraphia (which would impact his executive functioning) Or your kid could end up with a diagnosis of Social Communication Pragmatics Disorder--and while not autism would probably require the same in terms of educational supports. OP, when you went to KKI did you meet with a developmental pediatrician? Did they flag any motor coordination issues? |
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The fact that they closed his IEP means that in addition to being on grade level, he's not a behavioral "problem." If he had the outbursts at school that you describe he has at home, he probably would have and IEP still. The fact that your psychologist is actively dissuading you from getting a full evaluation given all the behavioral difficulty he's having at home, gives me pause. You may want to prepare yourself that your child is on the spectrum. Regardless, he still sounds like he needs help b/c the outbursts are affecting his quality of life (and yours). I would dump this therapist and use the money you're spending on CBT for a summer camp that helps reinforce social skills like Auburn, Lab, or Newton. During the year, Ivymount Outreach runs Unstuck and On Target. The best thing about it is the parent class. Having a SN kid (no matter what the diagnosis) means we need to up our parenting game. |
She already sounds like she's not very effective! You mention that your child is caught up in language, but there's still a big discrepancy between his verbal and non verbal scores. He also has anxiety and a real aversion to loud noises. My child with a severe language disorder hated the loud sounds of the fire drill and definitely has anxiety. Language disorders will do that. I would find someone who can really drill down on the language issues. Are you familiar with Rick Lavoie? His take on disabilities really opened up my understanding of having a language-based learning disability. The whole FAT City from 1991 is online. It simulated being a learning disabled child in a classroom. He talks about processing about 8:33 in. It's eye-opening how stressful that would be day after day. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZf8mfQFz-A |
And what is she getting out of all of it? She needs a expert in language disorders. |
I don't understand your childish response, PP. Many parents seek out help when our kids have delays and regularly assess our children's needs every few years. We need to be able to inform the IEP team as to what our kids need. The OP diligently sought out help. And the alternative would be? Do nothing? The OP doesn't need to go to Vanderbilt for an "expert" in language disorders. If it's not a language disorder or autism, it could be quite a few other things. That's why she needs a neuropsychological evaluation. |
Who mentioned Vanderbilt? And it's not "childish" -- it's practical. She's been to evaluators, and they are sending her in circles. Instead of just signing up for another evaluation, she needs to find an expert that can target her child's issues. It means doing a lot of homework before you walk through the doctor's door. |
I'm a PP but not the PP. Those issues would be? Multiple ADOSes does not = multiple neuropsychs. Often on this board I think people jump too quickly to recommend a neuropsych evaluation. It is not always necessary. In this case, it is. Maybe after that a language expert would be important, but I think a neuropsych is a better place to start because it sounds like there are other things in addition to language. And Vanderbilt came up, I assume, because PP assumed that "Camarata" would be the next recommendation. |
I am the PP, and I did take all the ADOS testing to mean she had also already had at least one neuropsych done. |
Nope. A toddler can have the ADOS testing. Please name a local "language disorder expert." The only name that consistently comes up on this forum is Camarata. |
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There is no more value in a neuropsych nor is going to the Camarata's. At this point, the identified issues are behavior and anxiety. Language may play a part if he still struggles a little with expressive and the current psychologist may not understand the nuances with a child with a previous language disorder. If the child is testing in the below average range, no school will provide IEP/speech services. At some point, kids need to learn to adapt and getting speech therapy isn't going to be that helpful at that age. The Camarata's do not do mental health/behavioral issues. They can still say if it is a language issue, but that's it.
Personally, I'd try other therapists and try to find one that better connects and talk to a psychiatrist about trying an anxiety medication. Someone needs to figure out how to connect with this child and try to figure out what is behind the behavioral issues, especially when they are mainly at home. Do individual and family counseling and approach it as a family issue and how can everyone make changes to make things happier and easier for the child. I would get a hearing test and see if an audiologist can pinpoint why the fire drills are so unnerving to him (I would suspect its more anxiety but rule out hearing issues). Most kids outgrow that by 4-5-6 so given it continues at 10, there is more to what is going on. It doesn't matter if it is autism at this point. There is nothing that they can do for autism now, especially when the main stuff is at home. Some kids also regardless of past history test limits again at this age and are trying to figure out the world and where they fit in. I wouldn't ignore it, but I wouldn't run and worry about multiple evaluations which can cause more anxiety but rather look at the problem, try to find the root and more importantly, how to make things better for the child. |
This isn't about a toddler nor is this really about a language disorder. The Camarata's are the leading experts. There are a few good private providers but that is subjective. Ours is great and really understands our child but is no longer doing this type of therapy. If anything, I'd go to Maryland or a clinic and get a new language evaluation but at this point, there probably isn't much speech therapy can do and the behaviors are mainly at home, which means there are triggers at home (or no triggers and it is just a safe place for child to figure it all out) and getting a good (which is easier said than done) therapist to help everyone figure that out and make changes would be more important. Child also needs to be evaluated to see if anxiety medication would be helpful. He probably should also be evaluated for depression given depression looks very different in kids and acting out is one of the signs. |
No kidding it's not about a toddler. People need to understand that ADOS can be administered multiple times at multiple ages. Because it's called a SPECTRUM. For some children the signs are very apparent at a very young age. For others there may be some indications of autism and that's why the results may be inconclusive. It's not chasing your tail. This OP has logically followed what his/her kid's delays were. This kid got ST and an IEP. The OP's doing a great parenting job and is at a crossroad. It doesn't matter if the Camaratas are "the" experts or not. People recommend seeing a language disorder expert and their names are the only one that comes up. So if no one actually has a different suggestion, just say what you mean. The main issues are obviously with behavior, so if a ST can't help with this, stop suggesting this. Lastly, a neuropsychological evaluation CAN assess for anxiety. But it can also give a differential diagnosis. You don't want to medicate a child for something they don't have. Also, many of us do testing for our kids every few years. It's not necessarily a one and done affair. It's expensive but it helps navigating/planning for the future--correcting the course. |
Your only viewpoint in every post on topic is assuming every child is"autism" and needing a neuropsych or diagnosis. At this point, what good will it do? Child needs a real mental health exam, not just a generalist looking at everything. I never suggested the child get ST. You are confusing posters. I think its a waste of time as is a neuropsych and autism diagnosis. Child is having behavioral issues at home. |
PP, nice attempt at trying to divert the topic and applying alternative facts. Read the whole post that you're quoting. I don't know if the OP's child has autism or not. The point of a neurospych eval are many as STATED ABOVE: -- anxiety and/or ADHD which can't be diagnosed by the ADOS alone. If this is the case, you may want to consider medications. --dyslexia or dysgraphia (which would impact his executive functioning) Or your kid could end up with a diagnosis of Social Communication Pragmatics Disorder--and while not autism would probably require the same in terms of educational supports. If a child is having behavioral issues at home there are lots of things to be done regardless of the diagnosis. You really don't know what a this testing does or what a "mental health exam" would look like for a 10 year old. |
| The child is not having issues at school. The child has had multiple evaluations and therapy. At this point, one would have found the other issues. OP identified Anxiety and behavioral issues. You didn't read the original post and are making it into your one size fit all. Yes, I do know what a mental health exam looks like for a child. That is exactly why I am saying the child needs one. You are only suggesting a few things to look at. You are too busy pushing your agenda and it makes no sense. |