First date--go or not
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Anonymous
| The age issue should be a concern but you need some "practice" dating and a social life so go for it. |
Anonymous
| A couple of years ago I was in the same position as OP and was set up on a blind date with a guy 60+. I had the same concerns as OP. He was a great guy but after about six months we both realized that the age difference was too much, even for him as he definitely understood and shared my concerns. We had a ton of fun together and I was amazed how good the sex was unaided by viagra or anything else. He's about to get married and I only wish I could have been 10-15 years older when I met him. His soon to be wife is in her mid 50's. I'm dating a nice guy in his late 40's and I'm hopeful! |
Anonymous
And your cats appreciate you for that. |
Anonymous
| Report back ladies. Are you happy you went? |
Anonymous
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He saved me the trouble. I was honest with him that I had concerns about the age difference. He wrote back that I was immature and didn't know how dating works. That a 45-50 year old man is interested in the 25-35 set and that I need to understand that that the men interested in my age group are in their 60s.
And with that, I deleted him and had a lovely dinner of cheese and crackers, 2 glasses of wine, took a hot bath, and watched Fences. |
Anonymous
Wow, what an asshole! FWIW, both my cousin and another friend have found someone near their own ages (40-45) lately, so there are normal divorced/single people out there. |
Anonymous
What a loser. Your night in sounds great! 
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