Official "My DH raged at me and threw things on Valentine's Day morning" thread

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you doing camps? I choose to spend summer with my child.

school-age children that can't stay home alone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you doing camps? I choose to spend summer with my child.

Oh ffs!

[Anonymous]

there has to be more this story, a lot more...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you doing camps? I choose to spend summer with my child.

Because it would not be a good idea for her to quit her job and be financially dependent on a husband with anger issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't blame Arlington County. Lots of things come up in life that require couples to communicate. This was just one. I'm sorry your dh makes communicating so difficult and stressful. That puts you in a tough spot when deadlines, etc. come up.

You guys. She's being facetious when she talks about the county...

[Anonymous]

OP here. I know Arlington County is not the problem. I was being tongue in cheek.

Also, I specifically did not say, "our vacation."

As to all the other questions, I'm broken, and when someone is broken, it's hard to identify that someone else is breaking them more. It's kinda all a wash to me.

I actually posted just because I didn't like the caricature from the other thread of selfish DWs complaining about this holiday. But I guess I have bigger issues than parodying a DCUM thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you doing camps? I choose to spend summer with my child.

I'm guessing this is OP's SIL on the basis of clueless entitlement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I know Arlington County is not the problem. I was being tongue in cheek.

Also, I specifically did not say, "our vacation."

As to all the other questions, I'm broken, and when someone is broken, it's hard to identify that someone else is breaking them more. It's kinda all a wash to me.

I actually posted just because I didn't like the caricature from the other thread of selfish DWs complaining about this holiday. But I guess I have bigger issues than parodying a DCUM thread.

I got it, OP.

I'm so sorry for you. It does sound like you need help in either/or counseling/legal form. Do you feel like you're ready to end the marriage?

[Anonymous]

He started a fight on purpose because he didn't do anything for V day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you doing camps? I choose to spend summer with my child.

Some women work! I know that sounds crazy, but it's true!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He started a fight on purpose because he didn't do anything for V day.

+1 That's my guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I know Arlington County is not the problem. I was being tongue in cheek.

Also, I specifically did not say, "our vacation."

As to all the other questions, I'm broken, and when someone is broken, it's hard to identify that someone else is breaking them more. It's kinda all a wash to me.

I actually posted just because I didn't like the caricature from the other thread of selfish DWs complaining about this holiday. But I guess I have bigger issues than parodying a DCUM thread.

Yeah. Raging and throwing things is abuse.

[Anonymous]

LMAO

This is such a pathetic problem. Honestly you couldn't discuss this with him last night...or you know anytime that isn't 8AM in the morning? I'd bitch at you too if you tried to pin me down before coffee and I was even awake properly.

[Anonymous]

It is getting to be home time. The real neglect should be kicking in right ,,,, about .... NOW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LMAO

This is such a pathetic problem. Honestly you couldn't discuss this with him last night...or you know anytime that isn't 8AM in the morning? I'd bitch at you too if you tried to pin me down before coffee and I was even awake properly.

If you're married, I feel very sorry for your spouse. If you're not, be sure to demonstrate this shitty attitude on the first date.

Who tells someone that their problem is "pathetic?" One could easily surmise that this morning was not the first time OP had brought the issue up with her husband. And...never mind. Not wasting any more time on someone who acts like an asshole.