Inlaws that hate me

[Anonymous]

Almost nobody is ever thrilled with their 19/20 yo child eloping. Mostly families like to participate in weddings, not have them done in secret without their knowledge. And while, legally, you were adults, I'm sure his parents thought that decision proved you weren't mature enough to make the decision. There's a lot of water under that bridge, agree to having him communicate with them only & leave out the drama when relating to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Part 2. We got engaged 6 months later and shortly after that we eloped. I thought things were good with his family but they decided they didn't like me again. Apparently DH wasn't spending enough time with them and I wasn't "allowing him" to. They told him he should divorce me. He obviously didn't. DH took some time away from his family and after that things were looking up, or so I thought.

Given the history how the eff did you all think eloping was a good idea?

A tone deaf as you and your DH seem to be I'm certain there is a hell of a lot more going on than what you have mentioned here. Two sides to every story and all that you just posted the high lights to make you sound an innocent victim knowing that DCUM always sides with the poor, poor DIL.

We eloped after having to cancel our wedding. His Granny died the day before our wedding and we drove 6 hours to be with his family instead of at our wedding. I'd say I was pretty considerate.