My sister used unemployment to pay for her nose job

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12/16/2016 06:47

Subject: My sister used unemployment to pay for her nose job

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OP, you sister can use her money as she sees fit. Meanwhile, you get to choose whether she moves in with you. If the answer is no, she doesn't get to move in.

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12/16/2016 11:15

Subject: My sister used unemployment to pay for her nose job

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Anonymous

I would not let her move in with me. Unless she needed the surgery for a medical reason, that shows incredibly poor judgment, and I would be worried that once she had a spot on the couch, she'd never leave.

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12/16/2016 12:29

Subject: My sister used unemployment to pay for her nose job

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Anonymous wrote:Can't believe no one has asked: soooo... how does she look?

If she had a class A honker and it's an improvement I'd welcome/help her. Her self-esteem will be boosted and she'll get on her feet soon.

If it was a hackjob I'd welcome/help her so she could fix it. This could take a while.

If it was unnecessary I'd help her get some mental health help.

+1. I'm a guy and even I know that women already have a disadvantage in the workplace. Women's looks are so much more important in the workplace. And more attractive women get more offers and generally have an easier time getting employed. It's not fair; it's not right; but it is true.

So, if the nose job made a significant improvement in her looks, in some ways, I might consider it to be an effort to improve her chances of becoming employed again in the near future.