At what point do you part ways? overreacting?

[Anonymous]

Not sure why you'd cut of dh's sister because her BIL is an idiot.

[Anonymous]

So you DH has two sisters or three?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are you cutting ties with? The one in the abusive relationship or the one defending the abuser?

The one defending the abuser. Also the one who allowed heavy drinking at a child's party.

Sorry, that seems to be reaching. I certainly wouldn't stick around at parties once they start doing shots, but I don't see cutting all ties over this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So who are you cutting ties with? The one in the abusive relationship or the one defending the abuser?

The one defending the abuser. Also the one who allowed heavy drinking at a child's party.

Sorry, that seems to be reaching. I certainly wouldn't stick around at parties once they start doing shots, but I don't see cutting all ties over this.

No no no. My issue is how SIL has been acting. Saying things like she needs to learn to not argue. Getting drunk at her son's party. She's even recently said that gay men aren't allowed around her son because they might rape him. I don't want my child witnessing or hearing this. I'm so disappointed in SIL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So you DH has two sisters or three?

Just 1. Darla is basically family but not actually family.

[Anonymous]

I was in an abusive relationship when I was a teenager. My personal experience is why I wondered if her saying that was no big deal.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea how any of this is your problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea how any of this is your problem.

I don't want my child going to his cousin's birthday party where there is heavy drinking and violence. Hince my problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea how any of this is your problem.

I don't want my child going to his cousin's birthday party where there is heavy drinking and violence. Hince my problem.

But I thought you left early with your kid and all this went on after you guys left. So I don't really get the problem.

[Anonymous]

Go to the party but if the hard liquor comes out or people start swinging, leave.