Not a sugar daddy and not FWB

[Anonymous]

Don't be as available to talk or text. Based on his reaction you'll get a feel for how "no strings attached" this is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - so surprised by the answers. I haven't told my friends, I'm afraid to be flamed, coz they wouldn't believe it's not sex for money type of arrangement. I think it's because neither of us is very experienced with relationships. He's been single >10 yrs and rather nerdy, and both of us have been in abusive situations in the past.

I think I feel a bit guilty because I have no plans for a romantic future. He says the same but a few times he's seemed to want a romantic/ close though not necessarily sexual bond (one reason I question his sexuality) . More like he wants a companion. And what if this keeps him from meeting the one? Perhaps I'm way over-analyzing.

His name doesn't start with D, does it? I know a guy like this. If it's him, you aren't the only one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

His name doesn't start with D, does it? I know a guy like this. If it's him, you aren't the only one.

No, it's not; he's not in the DC area at all