A pelvic exam is (should be) quick and painless. Nobody is drilling into your vagina. |
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Yeah, can you see that ending well? |
| My Dr. Has difficulty getting enough cells to test for my yearly pap. Says due to my tipped uterus. A regular pap is EXTREMELY painful. I'm left bleeding and still he does not have enough cells! Then I have to have it repeated... sometimes 3 times!!! AND I TAKE A XANAX before I go - it's not me it's the shape of my body that prevents a good sample. I'm sick of the torture. Any suggestions??? |
Are you a man? It always hurt, several providers to date so I can't blame one doctor. |
Try a different doctor? I have a tilted uterus and that hasn't happened. Also if you have no problems, you should be able to get them done less often. |
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You could also think about skipping it. There is risk to sedation. This article suggests pelvic exams may not be necessary, and I thought it was interesting:
https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2016/06/28/pelvic-exams-may-not-prolong-life-a-task-force-says/?_r=0 |
+1000 And the answer in my cynical mind is "because men don't have to get them". Sometimes they hurt/are uncomfortable, sometimes not. |
Taking a one time muscle relaxant is much different than sedation. |
Easy for you to say. If you have vaginismus, penetration of any kind is EXTREMELY painful. |
| Someone upthread suggested Dr. Lauren Muangman. She's an excellent doctor, very compassionate, and could be a good choice for OP. |
That's not for you to judge. There are doctors and practices who do this. I know of one neighbor who does this of gyn exams, the dentist and more. Don't have any names for you but there are practices in the DC area who do this |
If you don't have names how do you know there are practices that do this? |
+1 Sounds like a comment by a man who has never been through this. I'm also someone who does not have any sexual trauma history, and getting a pelvic exam feels like drilling into my vagina every time. I don't bleed, but it's *incredibly* painful. My doctor knows I get anxiety over it and talks her head off about some random subject during the exam to try and distract me. It's thoughtful, but doesn't really help. I just have to remind myself that it'll be over in about 20 Mississippi seconds... 19 long seconds... 18 more super long seconds... etc. |
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Who cares if it is overkill, it is super important that OP gets a pelvic exam and a pap smear regularly. Please try whatever you can to get one, whether it is taking medication, changing doctors, biting down and fighting through it. Take care of you.
Signed, someone who recently was diagnosed with uterine cancer who skipped her pap smears for 2 years because she just didn't like doing it and now has big regrets |