Wow, I hope you never get elderly and just want family to talk and have a conversation.
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Uhmmmm....you sound TERRIBLE OP! Did you grow up as a loner in a cave somewhere? you're very unkind. |
Maybe because you're a fucking bitch and ignore her - you're another terrible person! You and OP should move in together and enjoy each other's company. You're both gross. I feel bad for your husband's. To say STFU to your MIL even though you're saying it in your head.....just gross. |
I think it's fine to vent a little about inane chatter. OP isn't telling MIL to shut it, she is politely answering questions and then harmlessly complaining here.
I, too, have a hard time with people who simply can't enjoy a bit of companionable silence. I know people who will read every sign during a car ride just to say something. "No turn on red." Thanks so much for that valuable addition to the conversation. And no, I don't want silence all the time. But...take a breath! |
The plural of husband is "husbands," not "husband's." |
OP, my FIL asks those questions, even asking me where did I buy a dress. If they want to start a conversation, there are many other ways to do it. |
Those of you who think OP has a problem have never experienced a parent or inlaw with boundary issues. The non stop questions about the most inane aspects of life are so overwhelming and so soul crushing. |
And by the way, if you think providing more information is going to stop this....HAHAHAHAHA |
OMG yes! HATE IT!!
My mother is like this. She is baiting you, setting you up, finding reasons to be mad at you, etc. Nothing good. I loathe speaking with her. My MIL is like this. Like PPs, she is doing it to fill silence. It is awkward for me because my FIL, SIL, and DH will often just ignore it and I am stuck there listening and answering the awkward questions and conversations. |
Exactly. It's awful. I think they're looking for something to criticize. It's the look on their faces while they're doing it that's the worst. Ugh. Sorry OP. It truly feel a sickening to experience. |
Just ignore it, too! |
The posters telling you that you're rude OP are probably the very ones that like to ask people so many questions and dumb ones at that. |
Hey honey grow up! By the way...this is grow up police! ![]() |
A lot of question asking is generally a sign of intelligence, or so said a study I read.
Sooooo maybe she's just really smart and you don't get it! Sorry! |
Hahahah... I think we may have the same neighbor. I can't wait to get away from her. It's always rapid-fire questioning. |