np. It is, but it's not earning you any money. I have a $500k house paid off, and that's certainly better than paying a mortgage or rent, but I don't really count it when I think of net worth, just like I don't count the value of my cars. I count money that is generating returns for me. Including 401(k). Rental real estate, too, if applicable. |
Our jobs don't require us to live close-in. I promise that you have no idea how much cheaper everything is when you're not close in, from plumbers to preschool. That's also 1.5 incomes (one is part time work at home) so childcare costs have always been minimal. We've been married 12 years, and always saved a good amount, assuming that my income would go away, but it never has. That would be my advice: pretend you only have one income. Have the other one directed to entirely separate accounts that you never see. |
Thank you for posting. This is the reality for many outside the DCUM bubble. I am a single parent, 52, and doing worse than you in retirement, but a little better in other accounts. My biggest asset is my house. Without that my net worth is about $240,000, with 1 1/2 years of college already paid for for DD, so net worth would have been higher earlier last year before she started school. HHI is $90,000. |
It's probably not something worth stressing over. If you're living on $60k now AND you're saving for retirement AND you're paying your mortgage, when you actually get to retirement, then the mortgage payments will be gone, you won't be *saving* for retirement, and you can add Social Security into the mix. People have problems when they're living on $400k and have nothing saved. But when your needs are low, they're that much easier to meet. |
| 35. HHI $95k. Net worth $300k. No real estate yet, but I would like to buy a townhouse next year. |
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Me 35
Husband 38 HHI $360 401Ks= $240K Company stock= $100K Savings/liquid investments= $140K Equity in house= $400K (approx) student debt = $50K Net worth= $830K Did i do that correctly? I feel like we should be farther along. We have no kids so we should be able to save more. Good wakeup call! |
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Me 34
Wife 32 Child 1 HHI 260k 401ks/IRAs: 300k Taxable investment account: 110k Savings/Checking: 30k Home Equity: 250k (approx. 700k house with 450k mortgage) Student loans: -110k NW: 580k Feeling ok. Our expenses are too high. We live in the District. Staying the course will be fine, but we're on the slow road to wealth. |
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Home Equity` $825,000
His 401K, 450,000 my 401K, 100,000 (I SAH) Company Stock, 325,000 Investments/stocks, 475,000 Cash, 80,000 Trust Fund, 8 Million HHI 300K |
| Oops. I'm the above poster, husband and I are both 41, we have 4 children. |
I bet I know you IRL. Now I'm going to try to figure this out. |
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Home Equity - 800K
Rental Property - $200K (paid off) HHI - $800K +/- 401Ks - $2.2M Investment Accounts - $400K Misc Accts/Cash/Insurance Cash Value - 300K 41/44 - one child |
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38/40
1.75M hhi 10.8M net worth excluding primary residence. No trust fund or inheritance of any kind. |
| Who are you people? And I thought we were doing well! Wrooooooong! |
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40/41
HHI: retired NW: 150M Excluding primary residence: does it matter? |
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Mid thirties, three kids. HHI varies but is usually around $500k.
Net worth = close to 3 mil. We're doing ok. Could be better, could be worse. Obviously we're saving more than average but we hang around with a lot of really rich people which makes us feel like the poor ones. |