| Reread and saw you say you're "at the low end of your weight range." I have no idea what your ideal weight range is or what you weigh. But the same principle applies, if you have fat on your arms then circumference will increase. Other than that, I really, seriously do not for a moment believe your arms have gotten that "beefy." Arms look different in every photo from every angle and you probably have a skewed idea of what they actually look like. A photo represents what, 1/32 of a second? Any body part can look unflattering at a minuscule moment like that. But STOP perpetuating the absolute MYTH that women build hulk muscles off two day a week lifting workouts that don't even consist of lifting much weight. |
I'm not understanding why this is a problem. What's wrong with bulky arms? |
Actually, its you who are confusing two different concepts. The reason many women fail at "toning" is because they increase their reps and then drop their load to below the point of failure on the last set. There is plenty of evidence that the repetitions it takes to reach failure change the physiological effect of the exercise. In fact, its generally so well established that a recent research seeming to suggest otherwise was a fairly big deal. It is true that most women who worry about getting bulky are worrying about nothing and are imagining things. Building significant muscle mass is hard for anybody, and especially women. There's something profoundly weird about hearing a woman look at a picture of a female fitness competitor and say "I don't want to end up looking like her." Guess what? You won't unless you have the right genetics, strength train religiously for years, eat an incredibly strict diet, and ingest hormones. So worrying about it is a little like a guy being reluctant to play pick up basketball because he doesn't want to become like Lebron James. |
I am in the minority then. My guns do bulk like a female bodybuilder on steroids. So much so the Whole Foods cashier will pack the bags extra heavy and comment on my muscles. I get comments on my guns---last time I saw my mother when I was in a tank and shorts she was like 'omg those muscles". Nicknamed "muscles' by college roommate's father. "Beef" by my DH who loves it. I started running marathons in my late 20s/30s and barely lifting to debulk--but now in my mid-40s I need the weights. In my boot camp I bulk up faster than the one dude. |
There are certainly exceptions, but I'd say that 80% of the women I've heard complain that their arms are getting too big have minimal muscle tone at and either their arms are tiny to everyone but them or their arms have fat on them, not muscle. It sounds like you had significant arm muscle when you were younger. If you have retained nuclei from that period, you're always going to get swole faster than everyone else. |
| Keep in mind you're also working out those muscles when you're doing almost any other upper body exercise ie back, shoulders, etc. |
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your trainer is correct
Here is what I would recommend Say you workout 3x a week Workout your lower body 2x a week with low weight high reps Workout your upper body 1x a week with medium weight don't increase the weight or rep range week to week After all 3 workouts do High Intensity Cardio Interval Training for around 20 minutes run really hard for 45-75 seconds walk for 20-40 seconds repeat around 7 times |
Now THIS is good advice for OP |