Secret "friends"

[Anonymous]

Yes I do, after I discovered H. did.

I have four with whom I exchange erotic texts and pictures. Use a web messaging app. We have never met in person, and I never intend to. They're married too. More like erotic pen pals.

[Anonymous]

In my previous marriage, I probably cheated 30 times with both men and women, and that doesn't count the flirting and emotional affairs. After a few years, I just left. In this one, never. I actually love my husband this time. We've been together almost 7 years, and I've never even felt the inclination to flirt, which was always my biggest problem before. I'm actually great friends with my ex-husband. We decided that we should have never married, since we were better friends than partners. He doesn't hold any grudges.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have had a few of these over the years. Sexting, mostly. Spouse has never found out about any of them.

It's STD free and fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have had a few of these over the years. Sexting, mostly. Spouse has never found out about any of them.

It's STD free and fun.

Are you a man or woman? Did you know these people in real life?

And how'd these end? Just fizzle out after awhile?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is how it happens, though. As someone married 16 years, I can tell you that it starts out as "no, never." Until you meet someone, almost always a coworker, and the innocent conversations start dancing around that grey line.

Never say never.

Woman married 19 years. Agree.

My coworkers a bunch of much older, highly unattractive men with the hygiene habits and fashion sense of 13 year old boys. If I start sexting one of them, it'll be a sign of a severe psychotic episode and an affair would be the least of my worries.

We must work at the same office. Yick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is how it happens, though. As someone married 16 years, I can tell you that it starts out as "no, never." Until you meet someone, almost always a coworker, and the innocent conversations start dancing around that grey line.

Never say never.

Woman married 19 years. Agree.

+2 here, Married women and I AGREE!! It started as never and now I am dancing on the line...tempting

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have had a few of these over the years. Sexting, mostly. Spouse has never found out about any of them.

It's STD free and fun.

Are you a man or woman? Did you know these people in real life?

And how'd these end? Just fizzle out after awhile?

Man. They fizzle down. Still in loose contact with most of them. It goes from multiple times a day, to daily, to a couple times a week. Then, like all relationships, the shine wears off and you kind of become friends.