I never get hit on

Anonymous
(Secondarily, it sounds like you mostly hang out in neighborhoods where all of the men are married. Single men do not live in McLean and upper NW. We move there when our wives tell us to.)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.


Another pp. I actually looked up Eva Longoria without makeup. Really not that impressive. Besides, a man will figure if she doesn't bother to look her best when single and looking, why would she try to look her best once in a relationship?
Anonymous
Op try this, smile more often and see the difference.
Anonymous
Do you mean that literally no one hits on you?

Or do some men hit on you, but just not the ones that you want?



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.


Another pp. I actually looked up Eva Longoria without makeup. Really not that impressive. Besides, a man will figure if she doesn't bother to look her best when single and looking, why would she try to look her best once in a relationship?

OP here. I don't dress up every day. For special occasions and client meetings, yes.

I have noticed that with hair and makeup, I tend to turn more heads.
Anonymous
Maybe you don't actually look like Eva Longoria.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you don't actually look like Eva Longoria.


Ouch! maybe people meant Evan Longoria.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.


Another pp. I actually looked up Eva Longoria without makeup. Really not that impressive. Besides, a man will figure if she doesn't bother to look her best when single and looking, why would she try to look her best once in a relationship?

OP here. I don't dress up every day. For special occasions and client meetings, yes.

I have noticed that with hair and makeup, I tend to turn more heads.


If you are usually bald, then yes, most men don't hit on bald women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am a 30 year old Latin woman who supposedly looks like Eva Longoria.

I do not turn heads and no one flirts with me.

What is going on?

P.S. I am not fat.


Why don't you get off your rear and start approaching others?
Anonymous
Maybe you are looking at the wrong guys.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.


Another pp. I actually looked up Eva Longoria without makeup. Really not that impressive. Besides, a man will figure if she doesn't bother to look her best when single and looking, why would she try to look her best once in a relationship?

OP here. I don't dress up every day. For special occasions and client meetings, yes.

I have noticed that with hair and makeup, I tend to turn more heads.


Then start dressing up more. Once you hit your 30s, pretty non-blondes have to try harder.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you don't actually look like Eva Longoria.


Ouch! maybe people meant Evan Longoria.


Joke would work better if he weren't hot too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is not because your are Latin.

It is most likely because you appear unapproachable. E.g. not smiling, body turned away, closed body position, avoid eye contact.

A secondary reason could be if you're wearing clothes with relatively little form.

Whether your makeup and hair is done up is not going to matter if you look like Eva Longoria.


Another pp. I actually looked up Eva Longoria without makeup. Really not that impressive. Besides, a man will figure if she doesn't bother to look her best when single and looking, why would she try to look her best once in a relationship?

OP here. I don't dress up every day. For special occasions and client meetings, yes.

I have noticed that with hair and makeup, I tend to turn more heads.


Well start dressing up more and ffs spend 5-10 minutes on some makeup and hair
Anonymous
Trust me, even if Eva Longoria frowned all the time, she would get cat calls loud enough to hear around the world.
Anonymous
You guys! I got free breakfast today by this cute cashier. All I did was wear a well-fitted shirt with a skirt.
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