What to do about having her GF sleep over?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Between 13 and 16, there is a lot of same sex activity. Even if both are straight and are interested in the opposite sex, there'll be a lot of hormones and a willing partner in your basement at night, and things are going to happen. It's part of growing up. I know my 15 yo went from losing any interest in sleepovers after about 9 or 10 to suddenly there are a lot more with DC's same sex friends. It's harmless for the most part, but you need to be realistic about what they are doing down there in the basement.

I am a guy, and will second this. I have no gay/bi tendencies, but I did have sexual experimentation with friends during sleepovers. No penetration (we did not know about that). We were just trying to figure out what it felt like. We used to sleep over in my parents tent trailer, and would fool around in it.

[Anonymous]

I totally agree with speaking with the other parents. It could get ugly if everyone's not on the same page. As for allowing the sleep over with what you know, not a chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Between 13 and 16, there is a lot of same sex activity. Even if both are straight and are interested in the opposite sex, there'll be a lot of hormones and a willing partner in your basement at night, and things are going to happen. It's part of growing up. I know my 15 yo went from losing any interest in sleepovers after about 9 or 10 to suddenly there are a lot more with DC's same sex friends. It's harmless for the most part, but you need to be realistic about what they are doing down there in the basement.

I am a guy, and will second this. I have no gay/bi tendencies, but I did have sexual experimentation with friends during sleepovers. No penetration (we did not know about that). We were just trying to figure out what it felt like. We used to sleep over in my parents tent trailer, and would fool around in it.

Pretty sure the two of you are not the norm

[Anonymous]

"I wonder what a bj feels like."

"Me too."

"Want to see?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Between 13 and 16, there is a lot of same sex activity. Even if both are straight and are interested in the opposite sex, there'll be a lot of hormones and a willing partner in your basement at night, and things are going to happen. It's part of growing up. I know my 15 yo went from losing any interest in sleepovers after about 9 or 10 to suddenly there are a lot more with DC's same sex friends. It's harmless for the most part, but you need to be realistic about what they are doing down there in the basement.

This wasn't my experience. Had lots of sleepovers, no experimentation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"I wonder what a bj feels like."

"Me too."

"Want to see?"

Sounds gay to me.