How would you advise your friend in this situation?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So he's grieving his mother's death and she makes it all about her? She sounds like a self-centered idiot. She should just leave him alone.

I tried telling her that, that he probably was a little bit vulnerable and not thinking clearly. That it was highly unlikely he was thinking about how he could seduce you and work out a plan to get back together the night of his mother's funeral.
That's my friend though. In The 14 years I've known her she has always been self centered. She has many other wonderful qualities, but it's usually always about her.
I honestly think she's starting to feel like she shouldn't have divorced him, I've thought that for a little bit now, but I can't tell her that. She's got to sort her feelings out on her own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So he's grieving his mother's death and she makes it all about her? She sounds like a self-centered idiot. She should just leave him alone.

I tried telling her that, that he probably was a little bit vulnerable and not thinking clearly. That it was highly unlikely he was thinking about how he could seduce you and work out a plan to get back together the night of his mother's funeral.
That's my friend though. In The 14 years I've known her she has always been self centered. She has many other wonderful qualities, but it's usually always about her.
I honestly think she's starting to feel like she shouldn't have divorced him, I've thought that for a little bit now, but I can't tell her that. She's got to sort her feelings out on her own.

Yeah, she sound like she's on a power trip and she's delusional with a high opinion of herself. She'll learn.