Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a typical northern 30 something DC dwelling female. I dress pretty frumpy and don't have a clue about how to be flirty or attract a guy. My twenty three year old younger sister is friends with this "southern belle" and watching her is like a revelation on how to be beautiful or feminine.
Get this; this girl is only 23 but she is just so...self aware and so sure of herself and her womanly wiles. She is petite, has bleach blonde curly hair, wears bright colors and always has her nails and toes done. She also always wears a full face of makeup and is so naturally feminine. The way she flirts with guys and walks and talks. Its SO new and strange to me.
Wish I knew how to do that!
Considering this is true ...
What is to stop you OP? Stop dressing in a way that you feel is frumpy. Wear bright colors. Do your hair. Get a mani/pedi if you want. Take a chance and make a change.
Its not rocket surgery really.