Question about affairs and STIs
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Anonymous
No test for men, but the can get a vaccine. |
Anonymous
How can there be no test for men? |
Anonymous
you believe they only had unprotected sex twice? thats a lie. once you abandon the condoms after the first or second hookup you don't go back. BTW my AP told me he tested positive for Herpes but said it wasn't the bad kind - I was thinking no big deal - the cold sore kind until I was tested and totally shocked and pissed. I guess he lied to me and his DW. |
Anonymous
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I don't want to use condoms with my AP. I don't want herpes or anything else either. Lose lose situation. All it takes is one partner at one point in their life.
My guess is most APs get away from condoms eventually. What's the point in asking if lies can be told and cheaters lie. So what, do you trust what they say or do you assume your AP will likely give you something? Even post divorce dating, the statistics are so high. Getting worse with age. If you knew you had something when and how would you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend or AP? That sucks 16:15 I would be totally pissed too. |
Anonymous
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The day after I found out about my husband's affair, we both got tested. He protested that the other woman was this pure woman who had always been faithful to her husband, who was her only lover. I pointed out that there's no way he knows that was true and even if it was, my husband told me that the OW's husband was allegedly a horrible husband who stayed out late all of the time and if that was true, how could anyone trust what that dude was up to. My husband seemed totally shocked, like he had never contemplated such a thing.
Honestly, I don't believe for one second that the OW's husband was as evil as described, and I wouldn't trust the OW if she told me the sky was blue. |
Anonymous
Vaccine does not protect against all strains. |