Did I screw up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're fine.

And in the future, let DH handle all his with his parents. I never speak one word of logistics to my ILs. DH and I discuss and he handles it. If he does that poorly, well, they can be mad at him.

Ditto. geez - I've been married 18 years. The golden rule - I deal with my family on logistics, he deals with his. Why the hell are you stuck dealing with his family on logistics? I'll also be bummed some day if I have to make plans with my two boys by going through my DIL. Oouch.

[Anonymous]

When things screw-up it will be on-your-husband. But do you know what happens? Something good actually. When it's about your husband there won't be the drama. He's their boy and even if they are frustrated with him, it won't be nearly as much as it would be with you.