Guys who are golddiggers. Why so many now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't care about salary but I judge a woman's schooling/education level - which my dad thinks is weird.

Define your criteria. Is state school, OK, or are you looking for U.S. News ranking prestige? And what's more important--selective undergrad, or holding a graduate degree?

Personally, as a guy, I'd just as soon avoid any Ivy types who don't also have family money, aren't earning much, if anything, and still have an Ivy-type sense of entitlement about life.

No, sir, give me a cute, fun College Park grad nurse practicioner with a flex schedule any day of the week over your Penn Sociology major.

[Anonymous]

What is there to answer? There are many stupid women who will support a man, though I don't think there are that many. Predominantly the other way around.

Our society still requires the man to make the most money, and be the bread winner for the family. The man still expects the woman to cook and look good. These things will never change.

You mostly see old fossils with young women because they want the easy road and those men are willing to buy it. Seldom do you see the older woman with the Mambo.

[Anonymous]

Men are on a path to making themselves irrelevant. The go-getter men I know are gay. Straight guys are lazy and looking to be taken care of, as if women haven't been taking care of everything for them (except perhaps a salary) since the start of time. Now they want that too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are on a path to making themselves irrelevant. The go-getter men I know are gay. Straight guys are lazy and looking to be taken care of, as if women haven't been taking care of everything for them (except perhaps a salary) since the start of time. Now they want that too.

And they'll get it.

[Anonymous]

I think it's ok for a guy to want a similarly high earner; it can make for an easier lifestyle. I wouldn't want the entire burden of supporting a spouse and a family; it's nice to be able to share the load.

What I wouldn't be ok with is a true male gold digger - a guy who wanted a high-earning wife so he could sit on his ass all the time and live off of me. I'm not ok with that. (I'm not ok with the female version either.)

I have a few friends who seem to always pick guys who end up using them for their money. These guys end up moving into my friends' houses and eventually when they break up, the guy owes my friend money because they borrowed money from them for stuff. That wouldn't fly with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are on a path to making themselves irrelevant. The go-getter men I know are gay. Straight guys are lazy and looking to be taken care of, as if women haven't been taking care of everything for them (except perhaps a salary) since the start of time. Now they want that too.

Please don't generalize. DH is a go-getter and is an amazing man and partner. I would never want to be a single parent.

[Anonymous]

I think it shows men are not stupid. Money is useful, and also women who have the ability earn money are more likely stable and sensible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are on a path to making themselves irrelevant. The go-getter men I know are gay. Straight guys are lazy and looking to be taken care of, as if women haven't been taking care of everything for them (except perhaps a salary) since the start of time. Now they want that too.

bitter much? And despite whatever horrible experience(s) you may have had, you're completely off base.

Oh, and perhaps stop spewing utter nonsense and vitriol, and maybe, just maybe, you'll get laid soon. That should help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are on a path to making themselves irrelevant. The go-getter men I know are gay. Straight guys are lazy and looking to be taken care of, as if women haven't been taking care of everything for them (except perhaps a salary) since the start of time. Now they want that too.

???

Marriage is becoming irrelevant, as it should. I hope more women will get on board with that.

[Anonymous]

No problem with this. Let's face it, if a woman can want to be a SAHM, a man can want to be a SAHD.

[Anonymous]

Women wanted equal rights.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is there to answer? There are many stupid women who will support a man, though I don't think there are that many. Predominantly the other way around.

Our society still requires the man to make the most money, and be the bread winner for the family. The man still expects the woman to cook and look good. These things will never change.

You mostly see old fossils with young women because they want the easy road and those men are willing to buy it. Seldom do you see the older woman with the Mambo.

So predominantly stupid men who will support women?

[Anonymous]

I have noticed this trend too and it's awful. When I was making $200k I had some guys like this chasing after me. One was extremely good looking but lazy as hell and worked at a homeless shelter. He called me relentlessly. I weeded guys like this out by telling them early on that I did not want to work if I have kids. Even worse is the trend of men marrying women for their rich fathers. We all know people who have done this and it's a whole other level of pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No problem with this. Let's face it, if a woman can want to be a SAHM, a man can want to be a SAHD.

Oh come on, SAHDs are extremely rare and I don't know any man who would want this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps they are making sure the women aren't gold diggers.

It's a smart move and a good one to protect yourself. If you marry someone who has a good income then when divorce happens you're better protected as a husband