Work Friend Screwed Up - Do I Reach Out?

[Anonymous]

I hate cheaters.

Be a friend to the man's wife. She's the one that needs it.

[Anonymous]

Learn the difference between the usage of "her" and "she". Painful to read

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Learn the difference between the usage of "her" and "she". Painful to read

Learn how to use a period when you finish a sentence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Learn the difference between the usage of "her" and "she". Painful to read

You sound like a lot of fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - I guess I kind of feel like we're not that close if she didn't give me the heads up about this? People have had suspicions for awhile and I tried to ask her about it but she's been withdrawn for awhile so I didn't want to push... But I could have given her the heads up that it was going to blow up or tell her to hide her tracks (they got caught via FB and coordinating Outlook calendars) but it just felt so awkward for the last 2 months or so.

Actually I think your friend might really appreciate you reaching out. I'm not surprised she didn't tell you, how would you tell a friend, "hey im
having an affair with an exec". It's so risky. Plus if she feels any guilt about it, even more reason shed hide it. Its really nice that you want to be a supportive friend, I bet she'd really appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I've had two friendships die due to their personal decisions that i have not agreed with and i sometime I think back to my reactions and wish I had been a bit more generous. We're all doing the best we can. Sometimes we make mistakes. Humiliation prevents us from asking for help. I think you can send her a text and say Hey, I'm think of you and will always be here if you want to talk. I've always regretted not reaching out to those two former friends.

+1
I just ended a friendship bc the friend is judging some decisions I'm making about my life and marriage. I'm doing the best they can, and I don't need judgement and unsupportive attitudes from people in my inner circle.

[Anonymous]

Op - your friend may not agree with your assessment that she screwed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op - your friend may not agree with your assessment that she screwed up.

Regardless if the coworker thinks she screwed up or not, most people would agree that banging a married father of 2 for over a year isn't the best decision someone can make.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Learn the difference between the usage of "her" and "she". Painful to read

+1 Seriously.