Online dating/dating etc
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Anonymous
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Walk away.
You asked for consistency and you didn't get what you wanted. You have every right to have wanted it and asked for it. He has the right not to want the same thing and not to give it. There's too much of a disconnect in your intentions (even if you wanted to keep things relatively casual) to keep going. You'll get hurt or lose self respect. Walk away and I think in six months you can only be proud and glad you did. I've been there (OK with casual during and right after divorce). I had some "fun" and it was what I needed at the time. But I did demand exclusivity and attentiveness for the time we were together. |
Anonymous
Look it sounds like you still want to throw the cat around but want exclusivity from him. Why would you expect him to be compliant on only your terms? |
Anonymous
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It sounds as if if you desire a more serious relationship than he does.
After six months, who wouldn't right?? Either he doesn't like you enough to be more stable or he isn't that ready now to date only one woman. No one is in the wrong here, you two just want different things right now. |
Anonymous
| Admit it, you want a relationship, don't you? If it's casual, then what he's doing really shouldn't bother you. |
Anonymous
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Honestly, if it hasn't gone in a more serious direction after six months, it doesn't sound like either of you are all that into the other person.
He might be one of those guys who gets bored after about six months. Unfortunately I know a few guys who fit that description. They're up-front about it with the women they date, but often the women try to change their minds. And occasionally they do fall hard, but more often, they move on after six months. |
Anonymous
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OP is a typical woman who doesn't know what she wants.
She wanted an FB or FWB relationship with no commitment and that's what she's got, but that's not what she really wants. |