How do I get my ex to take the hint

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why haven't you blocked him? You explicitly told him to stop contacting you. He didn't respect that. Either keep receiving messages and getting mad when he texts, then have to decide every time you receive one if you should ignore, hint to stop, or explicitly tell him to stop again. Or you can block him and be done. Seems like an easy solution.

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He's not failing to take a hint. He is ignoring your statement that you want him to leave you alone. So block him.

[Anonymous]

Tell his girlfriend. That'll teach him a lesson

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Thank you for your invitation. I will have to decline as I have plans with my boyfriend. I am glad you have a new girlfriend. I hope things work out for both of you!"

And then don't respond ever again.

Why do women feel the need to be so polite in response to rudeness? If OP already told the dude to buzz off, she should not respond. OP, who cares if he invited you to the Super Bowl party? Just ignore it--there's nothing rude about that since you've already told him you have interest in ever seeing him again. And block his number- that's not rude either!

[Anonymous]

I have blocked all forms of communication with him. Hopefully this will solve things.

[Anonymous]

I dated a guy like that last year. He had at least one other girl and his ex on tap. I'm glad I found out and it ended. Bipolar cheaters would be the worst for a long term relationship or friendship.

[Anonymous]

OP, deep down you like the attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have blocked all forms of communication with him. Hopefully this will solve things.

Good for you. It sounds like maybe it wasn't easy to do that, but it's a good decision.

[Anonymous]

Well he made me feel uneasy making unnecessary sexual comments about how I want men to look at me because sometimes I wear low cut shirts, etc. But he is well connected professionally, so I thought it'd be nice to keep in touch for that reason. Obviously, not since he crossed the line.

[Anonymous]

Woman. Stop using hints, just say it!

[Anonymous]

OP doesn't want to completely shut the door because he's the one that got away.

[Anonymous]

Ignore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I know he's not am ex, but it was easier to type. He has been bothering me longer than I dated him.

Stop engaging him! This means quit texting him back. It's not rocket science, little girl

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP doesn't want to completely shut the door because he's the one that got away.

He's blocked, I've cut off all ties with him. I like my BF way better than this guy.

[Anonymous]

Just ignore and block him.

He sounds like he doesn't take NO for an answer which is just annoying beyond words.