Drink, smoke, weed, taking meds not safe with pregnancy (like advil). It's not that hard. |
Are you the PP with the surrogate? |
No, NP. But it's not accurate to say the bolded part above. |
| PP with the bad relationship never came back....her demands on her surrogate are probably unreasonable, particularly if they are the type that PP could characterize as having her heart strings pulled over. |
Are you a jerk in real life too? |
Or she didn't want to give too much identifying information. What is wrong with you? |
| I'm waiting for the PP to elaborate too. I know it's a huge leap of faith even in the best of circumstances to trust someone else to carry yor child for you and am curious to know how much of an opportunity you have to get to know the surrogate before you sign contracts. Are there multiple meetings if the match is local? Or do you more or less have to choose your surrogate based on how she looks on paper? |
| And which was more stressful for you? Choosing an egg donor? Or choosing a surrogate? |