not in love with husband

[Anonymous]

Maybe your marriage has lost a bit of steam over the years and needs a major tune up. After a few years, it is so darn easy to fall into a rut.

Perhaps you can re-ignite that fire. Revisit the place where you had your first date! Try to reinvision how you felt then...do you remember feeling like a giddy school girl back then??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you're bored, you're probably boring.

I don't say that to be mean. But I think you are probably at least partly responsible going off of the information you've provided.

What have you done to make your life more exciting and interesting, with and without your husband? Do you have goals? Do you have hobbies? Do you ever do anything kind of thrilling, like playing in a friendly low-stakes poker game or renting four wheelers?

Life is what you make it. Few men are going to be exciting and thrilling much past the honey moon stage.

+1

Step one is to inject some juice/excitement into your life by yourself first. If you DH resists or for whatever reason makes it impossible for you to pursue things that make life worth living for you, then go to Step two, which is reconsider the relationship.

But it doesn't eve sound like you've tried yet! What do you expect to happen if you leave this guy when you said yourself you don't even know what it is you want in your life? Do you think the universe will just plop something in your lap?