Honestly, the best way to shut a gossip down is to not engage.
Next time she starts gossiping - just look at her blankly for 10 seconds (sounds short, but trust me it is an eternity). Then, change the subject. "I was thinking of painting the kitchen blue, Larlita - what do you think? " Have a couple of these ready to go. Repeat as often as she does. |
+1 Mil makes up stories to try to get a captive audience. Pitiful. I avoid her for very good reason. |