Being good in bed
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Maybe it is just the people in my circle of friends but penis size seems to trump performance for men. Aside from that I can say that every "hot" woman I have ever met that claimed to be good in the sack has been terrible. Women that are really good don't advertise.
I'm not necessarily good in bed but I won't say no to pretty much anything within reason and I am eager and willing to please. I agree it takes two to tango. |
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DH sucks in bed. He has a soft-out right limp dick.
He doesn't like anything out of the ordinary He prefers to be on top No idea why I married him. I had more sex in 5 years of activity tad compared to since meeting my DH. Together almost 20 years! PreDH, I loved giving BJs, watching porn, getting naked just about anywhere, making out, sex on the beach- living life really, With DH I "matured" and my light began to fade. But like anything, you can't deny who you are. I still attract both sexes, am actively hit on, but I don't ever act. But, man oh man, some people really take me back, in theory, to my good 'ol days. |
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| It seems many women are not happy/comfortable with their bodies. They lack confidence, but are able to make do because men are easy to get off. About 1 in 10 are good in bed. I bet it's about the same for men. The worst are one that do nothing in bed, but think because the guy gets off they are good at sex. |
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| Attraction! |
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| If a mature woman wears a playful side braid or a blonde Heidi braid. They are good in bed. |
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Being confident, enthusiastic, sensual, and GGG.
You have to be into sex, into enjoying your partner, and into sharing yourself. |
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| Enthusiastic, perceptive, uninhibited, not squeamish. |
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I hear you PP. I hate that so many people seem to think adults should "mature" out of sex, fun, and fun sex! |
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DH here, and this is patently ridiculous. One big reason I divorced my first wife (though hardly the only reason) is that she sucked in bed, had a shitty attitude about sex (was sex-negative) and engaged in sex-shaming (of me) to get me to stop asking for better sex. Having wasted my prime sexual years (20s) already being faithful to a complete dud, I decided I had just one life to life and I was going to get laid by someone who wanted to have good sex with me. So so so stupid..should have ditched nearly a decade earlier. I thought we could 'work on it' and 'things would improve'. Never ever marry anyone with a hope or expectation they will 'improve'. Be happy with as they are right now, and if you have any expectation of changes, expect them to be for the worse.
I think I am very good in bed. I have a slightly above average tool, but more than that, I know how to use my fingers, hands, mouth, lips and no matter what tool I'm using, I know how to pay attention to how my partner is reacting. It's really not hard to be good in bed. Pay attention. If your partner isn't getting excited and wound up, you're not doing it right. Don't look at porn...touch them, gently at first, and then when you see you're doing something that works, do it more intensely (until they show signs that it's too intense). Pay attention. Don't be completely selfish. You should both be a little selfish but you should take turns being selfish. |
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| I don't think being generous has been mentioned. |
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I'm honest. If I liked something, I say so and will ask for it again. If I don't like it, I give constructive feedback.
I have a good sense of humor. Sex can be funny sometimes. I'm present. I don't think about the laundry or that I really ought to do more sit ups. Other than that, I say no if I can't be enthusiastic. I'm clean and have a healthy natural scent. I enjoy pleasing him. |
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