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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There does not seem to be this concern for women. [/quote]

DH here, and this is patently ridiculous.

One big reason I divorced my first wife (though hardly the only reason) is that she sucked in bed, had a shitty attitude about sex (was sex-negative) and engaged in sex-shaming (of me) to get me to stop asking for better sex.  Having wasted my prime sexual years (20s) already being faithful to a complete dud, I decided I had just one life to life and I was going to get laid by someone who wanted to have good sex with me.  So so so stupid..should have ditched nearly a decade earlier.  I thought we could 'work on it' and 'things would improve'.  Never ever marry anyone with a hope or expectation they will 'improve'.  Be happy with as they are right now, and if you have any expectation of changes, expect them to be for the worse.

[quote=Anonymous]How many of you think you are good in bed and what constitutes being good bed? [/quote]

I think I am very good in bed.  I have a slightly above average tool, but more than that, I know how to use my fingers, hands, mouth, lips and no matter what tool I'm using, [b]I know how to pay attention to how my partner is reacting[/b].  It's really not hard to be good in bed.  Pay attention.  If your partner isn't getting excited and wound up, you're not doing it right.  Don't look at porn...touch them, gently at first, and then when you see you're doing something that works, do it more intensely (until they show signs that it's too intense).  Pay attention.

Don't be completely selfish.  You should both be a little selfish but you should take turns being selfish.[/quote]

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